Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 3/14/2009

Question
I am fifteen and a little bit of a nerd. I am also very shy. I would like to be able to talk to girls and not sound like a complete idiot.

Answer
Hello Sean!

Yes, I'd like this for you too. Did you have a question in there somewhere?

Ok, I guess that you want to know HOW to do this. The answer is pretty simple.

First of all, forget talking AT girls. This is what most guys do. They think that if they can just say enough "interesting things" that the girls will be attracted to them. Sean, this doesn't work.

Girls are all about DOING the talking instead! If you can get a girl to talk, she'll be all kinds of interested! This is based on one simple fact: we are all primarily interested in one thing: ourselves.

Think about this: most people sit around and if they listen at all, they're only doing it so that they can say something to the other person - not to really understand them. When you find someone that really wants to understand and know you, you instantly like that person, don't you?

If you go to my website (http://BeingAMan.com) you'll find my FAQ's under "Self Help". There, you'll see some articles on how to be a good communicator.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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