Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 3/26/2009

Question
Hi Dr, it's me Greg again. I wrote you just a few days ago about this girl I like in
my class and you responed by saying to just ask for what I want.  Now my follow
up is she is very shy and I doubt even if I did ask her out right away she would
probley turn me down. So how do you apporach a shy girl? I thought you first
make her comafatble and then make the move.

Answer
Hello Greg!

No, you don't make her comfortable first. Women don't want to be "comfortable" they want to be excited and enthusiastic.

I'm afraid I can't possibly remember what advice I gave you a few days ago. I've probably probably 200 questions like this since then! If you don't copy the previous exchange of messages, I can't possibly know.

Either way, it doesn't matter if she's shy or outgoing. You approach her in exactly the same way - with bold confidence. She'll react just like any woman would and trust me, she's not going to just turn you down. Women don't work like that.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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