How to Attract the Woman of Your Dreams/relationship question

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I like this girl at my school but she just out of a long term relationship and she was hurt. But she said she just wants to be friends for now. she flirts alot with me. What should I do?

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Hello!

Oh, look at you being the nice, sensitive guy. So, are you her therapist? So what that she's just out of an LTR? It's not your job to make it all better for her! More important, the best healing anyone can have after ending a relationship is more dating and relationship!

NEVER take that garbage about being hurt as an excuse. Ok, so she was hurt. YOU didn't do it to her.

Further, tell her you're not interested in begin her friend. If you become one, you'll never, EVER be anything else. You need to explain to her that you don't wonk what you might become but then she doesn't know this ether and you both should find out.

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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, dating and sex, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers from all over the world. I'm able to answer literally any question regarding dating, finding and approaching women, sex, getting phone numbers, setting dates, what to do on dates, how to set them (and make sure she shows), dealing with dating problems, conversion from dates to relationships, etc. Check my website at: http://beingaman.com for much more. If your question is particularly sensitive you can email me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.

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Having helped over 30,000 people with their issues, I'm certainly qualified to help you with yours. I don't take the "feel good" approach at all. I'm direct and that comes from experience and research into what really works.

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