Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 3/29/2009

Question
QUESTION: Hi
I am 27 year old boy
I want to do love with a gal in my life b4 my marry but neither my fortune is with me and nor I know what attracts a gal ,I didn't find any gal in my surroundings
but on Internet I found gals of my liking but I don't know that how to start and how to tell my dream gal that how much love I can give her
people gets their love in just some hours and even on internet too but I don't know how to start talks so I can attract her if sometimes I find her no matter where?

ANSWER: Hello Vish!

How can I possibly teach you all the things you need to know in order to land some girl over the internet? You're talking about a ton of education and I can't possibly spend the next 3 months training you here!

If you're really serious about wanting to learn these skills, check out my "Hunting Seminar on DVD" at my website (http://BeingAMan.com) as it teaches you all the things you need to know.

I will say this however, while it may seem safe and easy to meet women on the internet, it's not at all. Sure, you'll meet some, but you'll waste huge amounts of time and resources on it. The internet, bars and clubs are the worst places there are to meet women!

Meeting them in real life is not one easier, but far more effective. The problem you have is that you don't have your game in your back pocket. Thus, when you go out you're not looking around to see if there are any interesting women around. Instead, you keep your eyes on the ground and wonder why you can't meet anyone.

Great (and I do mean GREAT) women are all over the place! You just have to be aware of them, and ready to meet them when you get the chance. Learn how the game is played by investing yourself in this study and you'll start getting what you want.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
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Remington Publications
BAM! TV
818.334.8826
http://beingaman.com
http://beingaman.tv
Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"
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QUESTION: Hi
 thanks a lot, actually I know nobody can teach it on internet, I am little bit shy for love things and you can say choosy also as I makes a particular standard for my gal like in features that's why I have friends but not gf because I would luv to marry
and here parents chooses gals/guys for us when we start to do jobs and we can also do love marriages too if we gets someone
I also only concentrates on work hope if I can find someone in office when I will work
thanks for your suggetion again I will definetly read your Hunting seminaar
well I think I couldn't explain what I exactly want to know
so trying again....
what kind of talks I should do like I only starts with what you do? howz life?
a gal on net said don't be so formal talk some other
so I thinks what to talk with gals to keep their intrest in me I only talks about work and daily life stuff  
sometimes I think this is the fault but couldn't get that what I should talk.
you know I can make very good friends in first meet but it remains as only friends and all ppl says he is very good boy
and nowadays I am really lonely so searches on Internet ,I know there is too much danger on internet as last year I heard news in USA
but hope is always there as some of my known ppl get thier brides from chatting on internet. I think its because of my age after marry all things will be in control :)

so have your say , tell me what you talks with strange gals or gals who r around you?

thanks a lot again for your patience to help me

Answer
Hello again Vish!

Ok, first mistake you're making: you think that you need to delivery "The Line" to a woman when you first meet her. Many guys try to do this - they want to have a single, killer line or phrase that will make women fall in love with them immediately.

It doesn't work because it doesn't exist. That's a very unsophisticated way of thinking.

By the same token, "how's life" is equally unsophisticated! It just shows that you have no direct, nothing you're looking for. You need to qualify any girl you meet. You want to act as though you're trying to find out who and what she is because you have standards that you're trying to determine she can meet before you go any further. This is also what the first date is for by the way.

So, you should go to my website (http://BeingAMan.com), click on "self help" and read my FAQ's - especially the part about communicating with women. You'll discover a tool called the "Open-Ended Question". This is your key.

Go read the articles on this right now.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.
Remington Publications
BAM! TV
818.334.8826
http://beingaman.com
http://beingaman.tv
Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"
Producers of "BAM! TV"