Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 4/19/2009

Question
Where are some of the best places for a shy guy like myself to find a girlfriend to get to know better. Also, where are good places to meet friends to hang out with. I am a very introverted person, but I need to find things to do so I am not bored all the time.Hopefully you will be able to recommend some good ideas.

Answer
Hello Dan!

Man! Are you going to hate my answer! Well, let's get to it anyway....

Where do you meet women? Answer: everywhere you are, EXCEPT bars, clubs and the internet. The reality is that bars, clubs and the internet are the most difficult places there are to meet great women. In fact, you need very specialized skills in order to make these situations work for you. They are totally artificial and you need to know this and be able to work these artificial situations to your advantage (very difficult to do by the way) in order to be successful in these venues.

As to that "everywhere" answer, here's the key:

Great women are literally everywhere. The problem is that you don't have your game in your back pocket in order to be able to meet and close these women for digits, dates or sex. So, you don't take advantage of this opportunity.

Now, you're going to come back to me and deny this is so, but I already know it is. Otherwise, you wouldn't be asking me this question!

I have an e-book that I suggest you read called "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" that discusses far, far more than just 1001 of them by the way. You can combine all sorts of approach mechanics with any venue you're at to get all sorts of incredible women in your black book. Seriously!

As to how to make new friends, that's a simple task too: get some new hobbies. As soon as you find some new things to do, you'll find all sorts of people that are already enjoying that thing too. You have things in common with them and can build friendships based on that.

By the way: this is also one of the 1001 ways to meet great women too!

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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