Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 5/19/2009

Question
Wrote you a few weeks back about a woman who I believe to be the girl of my
dreams.  I am very successful in all aspects of my life, but dating is not my
forte.  I simply want to tell her that I care for her, but am afraid that I will
scare her off before even getting started.  What do you suggest?

She's still dating the slug, but they are on a "break" ... do I ask her out and
talk candidly or take it more slowly.  I don't want to lose her before I've even
started.

Thanks,
M

Answer
Hello!

I'm afraid that if you don't include the previous communications, I have to possible way of remembering what we've talked about. I get a TON of these letters every single day and have answered over 30,000 of them in the past few years. I simply can't remember ever single conversation.

Just as you're successful in other areas of your life; that's true because you learned how to be. You need real education in this realm as well to be successful. It's obvious from your statement that you don't really know what you're doing here. You NEVER go to a girl and tell her that you "...care for her." That puts all the pressure on her to do something and tells her that you're too much of a coward to do it yourself.

I strongly urge you to read my books, "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II" and get this education you need. This is a beginner mistake you shouldn't be making.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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