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QUESTION: Dear Sir,

I have been to Orkut for over an year now. Most of the friends in my profile are the person whom I know personally.
Now a days I am searching profiles for new girls who are unknown to me. Some of them added me. How can I know continue my involvement with them. They are very gorgeous girl with plenty of boy's in their profile. How can I be different and impress my subject who are far more gorgeous than me !!

ANSWER: Hello Sabby!

What are you really hoping for here? Are you hoping that you'll add some girl to your profile and that she'll be so impressed that she'll do all your work for you? Sabby, it simply doesn't work that way. You have to build rapport and connection with any girl you're interested in. She's not going to do that for you.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
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Remington Publications
BAM! TV
818.334.8826
http://beingaman.com
http://beingaman.tv
Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"
Producers of "BAM! TV"

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QUESTION: Sir,

Kindly tell me about how to build a rapport and connection wit ha girls I am interested in ?

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Hello again Sabby!

That is a HUGE question that would take me weeks to answer! There isn't a line or some magic bullet you can deliver to work with any woman at any time - at least one that I can give you via these messages. If you want to learn this technique, it's a matter of study, not some easy, no-effort-on-your-part fix.

The overview is that you need to learn communication systems and use them to build rapport and connection (which leads to attraction.) You need to be able to react not only to the environment but to her reaction to things. You need to be able to read her systems and either match them (in some models) or counter them (in others.) I can't possibly train you how to do this via these messages. On the flip side, all of the information is available in my books.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.
Remington Publications
BAM! TV
818.334.8826
http://beingaman.com
http://beingaman.tv
Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"
Producers of "BAM! TV"

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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, dating and sex, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers from all over the world. I'm able to answer literally any question regarding dating, finding and approaching women, sex, getting phone numbers, setting dates, what to do on dates, how to set them (and make sure she shows), dealing with dating problems, conversion from dates to relationships, etc. Check my website at: http://beingaman.com for much more. If your question is particularly sensitive you can email me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.

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Having helped over 30,000 people with their issues, I'm certainly qualified to help you with yours. I don't take the "feel good" approach at all. I'm direct and that comes from experience and research into what really works.

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Many thousands ... and millions of readers all over the world.

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