Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 6/1/2009

Question
Hi Dennis,

I am really interested in a girl. She is so cute.But the problem is that,I am not getting a chance to start with the girl.She works in a pub and I don't see any chance of striking a natural conversation with her.

How do I go and talk to her and strike a good rapport with that girl.The only chance I see is saying a Hi to her on the street..!!!But that sounds so Weird....
Help Me..

Looking forward to hear from you.
Bye.

Answer
Hello Gaurav!

Hold on a second. She works in a pub and you can't start a conversation with her??? Pubs are all about conversation! If she works behind the bar, sit at the bar and say "hi". If she's a server, sit in her section so that she can come over and you can say "hi".

I don't get the problem here!

Further, you can easily talk to any woman "on the streets". With this one, you have built-in context! Your context is this:

"Hi there! You work over at [name] Pub, don't you?"

There's your opener! Now, you just start talking to her like any other normal human being.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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