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A friend of mine and I have known each other for about a year, just as friends. We have dated once and I have been planning on asking her out on a second date. Now here's the kicker: Another mutual friend also likes her and has been taking her out. In most cases, at this point I would fold, thinking she would probably be better off with another guy. I would really like to get her on a second date, but not sure what to do since she is actively dating other guys. She's not the type of girl to sleep around, so I know she's not like that. What should I do? How should I handle this?
Thanks.
Hello Frank!
Wait a minute. This is a "mutual friend"? Does this "friend" know you like this girl? How close "friends" are you with this guy? Why didn't you pull the trigger with this girl when you had the chance rather than waiting a year and becoming her "friend" first???
If this guy is really a friend, it's game-over between you and the female friend (it may already be game-over because of your friendship with her by the way!) You don't go after friend's girls! A friend deserves much, much better than that.
I think you got some 'splanin' to do.
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