Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 7/31/2009

Question
Dear Expert

    I am single 34 years old male. I recently moved from USA to Greece for work, and I will stay working in Greece for the next 2 to 3 years before going back to the states. I was born and raised for the first 15 years in Turkey, then I traveled to USA with my parents when I was 16. When we were in Turkey, we had a nice blond roommate, who was renting a room in our house with her parents, her name was Patt, she was a pleasant woman and a friend to my relatives for over 12 years while we were living in Turkey.  Patt, the blond moved to Greece 6 years ago, and she is married to a Greek man at this time.

   Since I am in Greece now, and Patt is also in Greece, but I do not know where she is, I want to meet Patt because I want her to introduce me to some of her Turkish girlfriends who are also living in Greece. My problem is the following:

    My relatives who are living in USA know Patt's address information, but they are refusing to give me her location. My relatives do not want me to go see patt again. They said her Greek husband might get jealous and angry if I go to meet with her, but I do not care about her husband. I just want to meet Patt. I feel lonely here in Greece, and I need to know some women from my country through Patt. How can I get her address from my cousins who are in the states?

Answer
Hello Sam!

If your cousins don't want to give you her number, they aren't going to do it. This concerns me. What do they know about the situation that you're not telling me? Maybe you can get an uncle or aunt to convince them?

On the flip side, it's so easy to meet women on your own, why are you going through all of this with the cousins in the first place?

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.
Remington Publications
BAM! TV
818.334.8826
http://beingaman.com
http://beingaman.tv
Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"
Producers of "BAM! TV"