Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 1/10/2010

Question
So, I've been talking to this girl for awhile now. Everything was going right, we got with each other, and kept talking until we went to her dance. She ignored me the entire night. After i confronted her about it she told me that she ignored me to not lead me on and she did not know how to tell me shed rather be friends. I let everything out told her how i felt about her and wham bam she said something (maybe just patronizing) but she said the classic in that I'm everything a girl wants in a guy, and that she is just not that girl. So do I let her go? Or maybe wait awhile and then try to win her over, because she is really special to me. She just likes me as a friend, but can I get her for more than that maybe without even personally letting her know what I am doing?

Answer
Hello Sam!

No. You let her go - and start dating all her friends. You do not become her friend because; frankly, that's pretty insulting, don't you think? You're only good enough for her to be her friend? Think about what a slap in the face that is Sam.

Further, you're not going to trick her into liking you. She can't see your value. That's not your fault, it's hers. Down the road, when she sees you dating - and winning over - all these other girls, she may come back to you. Then, you can remember how she snubbed you in the first place and realize that she wasn't the catch she seems to be now.

Don't waste your time on women that can't see your value. Focus only on those that can.

Best regards...

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