Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 1/27/2010

Question
Hi doc,

I just received advice from you earlier about the need to date other girls as well and not only stick to the one girl i love, or i claim i love. But i tend to be a sincere guy. So how should i begin to look at girls first? And secondly, how do i go about getting to know a girl and then dating her? Is there a sort of template or rules which i should follow in order to know a girl and then get her to be my girlfriend? I know every girl is different but i believe the approach should be the same since the aim is the same. Please help me out because i want to change from the love and sincerity beleiving wussy to a practical man.

Thanks in advance!


Answer
Hello Bob!

Yes, there is something of a template and a set of rules, but they are far too extensive to explain via one - or even one hundred of these messages!

Bob, if dating and relationships were that simple, you wouldn't be writing to me for this information. In fact, humans are complicated emotional creatures with equally complicated mating rituals. I can't simply give you a list of them here - there are simply far too many considerations!

You need to view this as a study, not memorizing a few patterns. I suggest you take this seriously! Go ready my books, "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II" as they lay all of this out in both depth and summary so you know the issues, why they are true, what specifics each carry and how to deal with them all.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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