How to Attract the Woman of Your Dreams/love

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okay my names boom its what they call me and i'm kinda big and very scary looking for a 16 year old for some reason everyone is afraid of me i try to go out with a girl but they always say lets just be friends i don't know what to anymore

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Hello Boom!

Most of the really big guys I know are also the nicest. They have to overcome that initial intimidation with lots of smiles and being happy and engaging. You should do that too.

They are often the first to reach out and say, "Hey! I'm Boom. What's your name?" What that shows is confidence - something women just melt over.

Think of your size as an advantage - it is. Don't think of yourself as "big and scary". That's not who you are at all, right?

What you believe about yourself inside is what you show to the world outside. Watch that carefully.

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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, dating and sex, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers from all over the world. I'm able to answer literally any question regarding dating, finding and approaching women, sex, getting phone numbers, setting dates, what to do on dates, how to set them (and make sure she shows), dealing with dating problems, conversion from dates to relationships, etc. Check my website at: http://beingaman.com for much more. If your question is particularly sensitive you can email me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.

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Having helped over 30,000 people with their issues, I'm certainly qualified to help you with yours. I don't take the "feel good" approach at all. I'm direct and that comes from experience and research into what really works.

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