Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 2/12/2010

Question
i am interested in this lady and i have made my intention known to her  but she just wont accept me.each time i talk to her about it she tells me that she cannot date me and i think  thats because she is a class ahead of me cause we are both student in the same school.i love her so much and am not ready to lose her,please tell me what to doa

Answer
Hello Adewale!

Here's what you do: move on.

You've made a ton of mistakes here, but that's not the most important issue. In fact, she's flat-out told you that she's not interested.

With a huge world full of women, you've chosen to "fall in love" (actually, you THINK you're in love - you're not, you don't even know this girl!) with one and pinned all your hopes and dreams on her. She's told you "no" and that's what you need to be seeing now.

Get un-addicted to her, heal up and move on so that you can find someone else to love that will love you back. Then, don't make these same mistakes. Learn what you SHOULD be doing to build rapport, connection and attraction.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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