Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 6/3/2010

Question
i wish to attract a woman as alover and i always get awoman as a sister,ie woman always treat me as abrother,how do i attract awoman for a loving sexual relationship and not a sister

Answer
Hello Jef!

You become a woman's brother because you start off that way. You meet them and start acting like a friend hoping that she'll do all your work for you so that you won't have to take any risks.

Instead:

1) Be clear on your objective. If you want to date a girl, DATE HER. Don't "hang out" or be overly causal about things!
2) Don't text!!!! This kills off potential relationships! Get on the phone and use it ONLY to set up dates! You absolutely need "face time".
3) Dates are your chance to turn on the charm and to get to know her. Draw her out. Learn to use open-ended questions to learn about her (see the FAQ's on my website for more on this) and get her to invest in you emotionally.
4) Kiss this girl already! First kisses are never "given" or "negotiated", they are stolen. Do it when it seems least obvious. In fact, a good kiss (not wet or sloppy, but sensual and passionate) is a good way to START a date!

Then, never settle for what you don't want. If some girl tells you she sees you as her brother, get suitable indignant! That's pretty damn insulting if you ask me! Is that all she thinks you're worth?

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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