Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 11/21/2011

Question
Well see i met this girl at a coon hunt back in January. And well i was like lightin struck and well we started talkin for the next week. It was goin just fine then her dad who by the way has never let her date steps in and says we can't see or talk to each other. Now as for my age i'm 22 and shes 20 so what do i do i mean i love her and she loves me so how do i get her?

Answer
Hello Timmy!

She's 20 years old and her dad won't let her date? What in the hell is going on here? Is she going to school and he's holding that over her head (by threatening to no longer pay for it) or something?

If you're not absolutely sure and this is just what she's telling you, I get the feeling that it's not her dad at all - it's her. SHE may have decided (for whatever reason) that she doesn't want to date you. You need to nail this down and be sure.

If it's about her education, consider that a huge part of any education is learning how to become the woman (or man) of someone else's dreams. Dating is a prelude to relationships.

Further, at 20 years old, her father shouldn't be acting this intrusively in her life.

As I said before, there's something else going on here. It's not simply about her not being able to date.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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