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Hello Lisa,how're you doing?It's Siavash.Nice to have you here!
Already I have had 4 dates with this girl ,all have gone great.As we are going to have more dates with each other(once a week)over the coming weeks,I WOULD APPRECIATE YOUR ADVICE ON HOW TO COME UP WITH GREAT PLANS FOR THE NEXT DATES ,MAKING SURE THESE DATES WILL STRENGTHEN THE ATTRACTION BETWEEN US?
(I'm 26 and she is 25.)
Thanks
Hello Siavash,
I'm very happy for you! 4 dates is a good start.
I am not sure what opportunities you have in Iran for taking someone on a date. Here we have parks where you can ride in little trains or cars to have fun. There are zoos, where you can go see wild animals. I don't know what you have, but you will have hospitals and places where the elderly and children are cared for.
Although it's nice to go for fun dates, if you're considering a lady as a future wife, it might be nice to include some trips that are done for charity, like visiting the elderly or those who are orphans and see how she reacts in all situations. That might give you more insight in how she was raised and what she will do in your own home.
The goal is always to be of like mind, and if there is something you don't agree on, make sure it is not going to be so important to either of you that it ruins your passion.
If you can wait a day or two, I'll ask my sister in law what might be good ideas. My brother in law is Iranian, living in Miami, and he might know some things you would have available there.
If your goal is to strengthen your attraction, then it would be nice to highlight for her your talents and hobbies. If you're good at something, or if you really enjoy doing something, take her along and let her see you at your best.
Find out what she might be good at and give her an opportunity to impress you with her skills too.
It should be a good idea to spend time with her family as well. Get to know each other and build strength and trust between you.
Then when you leave, her family will speak good things to her about you. :)
You can write to me privately at chastityrose@yahoo.com if you can't reach me here. I have to go on "vacation" mode often because I can't handle a great volume of emails.
I pray that you have a blessed and satisfying spring, and that you and the young lady find happiness together.
Lisa
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I can answer questions on the spark of attraction, how to make a good impression, what women want and need, and how to overcome your fears of rejection. I can instruct you on how to improve yourself and how to project the image of the man you want to be. I can help you plan what to say, what gifts might be appropriate and how to impress her on dates. I know the one secret thing that can make this or any woman chase you relentlessly, and it's NOT your money! I have been helping men and women catch each other for over 10 years, and counseling them on how to build a solid relationship that lasts. Nobody wants to be left alone, divorced or cheated on. Ask me the questions and I'll show you how to divorce proof your future relationship!
Experience
I have more than 10 years experience in private coaching in love and relationships, as well as premarital counseling, and working with abused women. I have written several ebooks and articles on relationships and sexuality and I am the Pastor of Blessing Meadows Ministries.
Publications
I have had articles and news stories published in the Americus Times Recorder, Cordele Dispatch, Sumter Free Press, Albany Herald, and a poem in the Canestota Tri Pine Journal. I also had a newspaper column on life in rural Georgia and wrote book reviews for the newspaper column for the public library in Americus, GA for several years.
My own ebooks are available at Booklocker.com - "How To Have Great Sex While Cleaning Your House", "How To Raise The Dead", and "Twenty Lovers In Your Kitchen" (coming soon).
On my website I publish a monthly inspirational newsletter - The Secret Garden Letters, and have 2 more ebooks "Once Upon An Enchanted Bedtime" for children and "Once Upon An Enchanted Evening" for adults.
Online I had a story published on Pearl Press (which no longer exists). For a short time I worked as an assistant editor for Freya's Bower Publishing, online.
I write articles for two other websites that I own, and answer questions by email.
Education/Credentials
My education included Union Springs Central High School, Union Springs NY; BOCES, Auburn NY; as well as several years studying the Bible and learning from those I have ministered to.
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