Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 1/25/2012

Question
Good Day sir,

I would like to ask for help, about this girl. I first notice her when my cousin invited her friends to have lunch at their home. So i asked my cousin about her and she gave me some information about that girl and then i added her on facebook. weeks later I decided to message her, and 2 weeks after that I received her reply and we had a good talk. 3 months later I decided to ask her number, and I told her that my reason was I want to know her better and then she gave me her number. After so many weeks that passed we where texting and sending messages on facbook, well we never had a very long conversation and we never had a good meeting or a date. I thought of her asking one time but I don't know when was the right timing, after all I think that she thinks of me as a stranger, still a stranger.
She is still in college and graduating, she is a Nursing student.

That's all and thanks., I would wait for you reply sir, and hoping for answers...

Answer
Hello Al!

I have absolutely no clue what you're waiting for here. If you're waiting for some sign or for the "perfect time" forget them both. They never come!

In fact, you've wasted months here with this girl! Knock it off and call her up already. Invite her out so you can get to know her. Stop worrying about being a "stranger". You're only a stranger to her because you're doing nothing to change that.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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