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Dear Sir,
Please help me for godsake.
My name is sheikh from India. And I
am studying in final year b. Com.
One girl from first year b. Com eye
contacted with me more than 8 or 9
times. For instance in bus stand she
is looking at me everyday. I tried to
talk to her She did not reply.. After
that I ignored her but she kept on
looking at me everyday, in canteen,
while I roaming in campus her
friends are teasing her by my name.
I fell in love with her but my friend
classmate told me that her cousin
brother studying in her class so that
reason she is not talking with me. I
want propose her how to propose
her in college, always risk of her
cousin brother? How to propose
her Sir please tell me. She looked At
me when I was in shoping
mall 2 weeks ago for more than 10
seconds. I tried to talk to her there
but her parents were there. Only my
3 months remains of myvcollege..... I
love her more than my life.. It's
been 5 months this happens
Tell me how to propose her?""

Hello Sheikh!

First off, you aren't in love with this girl. You don't even know her! You are infatuated with her and that's a very different thing. You need to make this differentiation because thinking otherwise will cause you not do what you have to in order to get to know her.

Do you think her parents or "cousin brother" (I have no idea what that means) don't want her to be happy? Of course they do. If they are judging you negatively what could it be based on? They don't know you.  Again, more excuses to not do what you have to - not anything based in reality.

If she's making all this eye contact with you it gives you a wonderful opening with her. The very next time you see her do this - even if she's with someone - just walk over and say hello again. When she says nothing just say "if you want to know who I am you're going to have to talk to me!"

That's going to get everything out on the table. Let's face it Sheikh, it's the not-knowing that's really hurting you, right? Well, that's the first step. Get past all of this coyness and game playing and get direct. Then you can see where things could go.

If you don't do something, eventually she's going to get tired of waiting for you and you'll have lost your chance. Be bold! The mighty forces will come to your aid if you only take some action.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
Remington Publications
Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"
Producers of "BAM! TV"

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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, dating and sex, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers from all over the world. I'm able to answer literally any question regarding dating, finding and approaching women, sex, getting phone numbers, setting dates, what to do on dates, how to set them (and make sure she shows), dealing with dating problems, conversion from dates to relationships, etc. Check my website at: for much more. If your question is particularly sensitive you can email me privately and securely at:


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