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Just for increasing my knowledge, I was just thinking that which quality of a man, an average women likes. According to what I think, it's personality and not the beautiful face but the overall personality. And I also think that nowadays is not the time when clean shaven men were preferred but now beards and raw musculanity is what counts. I wanted some information on this.


Hello Jem!

There have been a number of studies done around the world - in Australia, in Europe, in Asia and here in the US (including my own) that continue to point to the exact same things showing what women find "attractive" in men.

By the way, beards aren't one of them. That happens to be a very subjective thing and differs woman to woman. But, here are the top-10 things women find attractive in men in order of importance:

1.  Power
2.  Confidence
3.  Sense of humor
4.  Genuine
5.  Masculinity/Real Man/Alpha
6.  Conversation Skills
7.  Stylish/Fashionable
8.  Looks
9.  Money
10. Muscles

This isn't the entire story however. For example, you need to understand what "power" means - and it's different for different women! Some women are attracted to big, powerful-looking guys. Some women like guys who have deep, strong authoritative voices. Some women like guys who have and exert power and influence over others, etc.

Notice by the way how looks ranks only #8 in that list! If you spent your time focusing on just the top 5, you'd be way ahead of your game.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, dating and sex, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers from all over the world. I'm able to answer literally any question regarding dating, finding and approaching women, sex, getting phone numbers, setting dates, what to do on dates, how to set them (and make sure she shows), dealing with dating problems, conversion from dates to relationships, etc. Check my website at: for much more. If your question is particularly sensitive you can email me privately and securely at:


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