Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 12/6/2007

Question
Well theres this girl in marching band and I'm in drumline. and we spend some time together, we talk and we flirt, but i dont know when to ask her out. like we sit next to eachother on the bus to our competitions, and we hold hands, i  keep her warm, and we have long close hugs alot. I'm just asking when should i ask her out. Is it time. she had alot of relationships and i think shes trying to find the right one. even my friend cheryll said it looks like were going out. what should i do?

Answer
Hello Jorge!

When should you ask her out? A long time ago buddy! You may very well be losing your power here!

The very next time you see her, just walk up and say, "You know, it's been fun getting to know you this year. Let's get together out side of school so I can get to know you better."

This is especially important considering that the holidays are coming and you're going to be on break. Get her phone number if you don't already have it and move this thing forward already!

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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