Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 9/3/2006

Question
I am wondering what kind of things i can do to ask my girl friend to homecomming in a romantic way .. i cant think of anything !! ?  

Answer
Hello Tyler!

First of all, if you're trying to knock her off her chair with something incredible, I suggest you step way back. Going overboard doesn't impress girls - it makes you look too needy and they begin to wonder if you're worth their time.

Instead, make it a simple gesture of love - just say to her, "You know honey, I can't imagine going to the homecoming dance with anyone else but you. That's the only way the night will be perfect."

This may seem extremely simple - and it is - but it's just these simple gestures that mean the most.

Here's another important clue about girls you want to know as soon as possible: a bunch of little gestures, scattered over time are much more valuable to them than just one or two big ones! Many guys think that they have to buy a really expensive present for a girl's birthday or do something incredible to show how much they love them.

Then, these same guys get into a never-ending loop of trying to top the last thing they did, when what women really want is just a little gesture - a note, a loving word, etc. done every few days. In other words, what girls want is to know that they're in your thoughts regularly, not just when you're feeling lonely.

Trust me, you'll get much farther with this than trying to overwhelm her with a single act.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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