Expert: PracticalHappiness.com - 12/14/2007

Question
QUESTION: Hi Arkady,
Q:What is the best way to establish indicators of interest to a HB(hot babe) without appearing too needy or overtly invested in any particular HB. Also at the same time persuading the HB to want to come across that she has a vested interest to pick you up(while she initially had no intention.)

Q: How does one kill the bitch shield in a super HB.

Q:How can one test the strength of the intelligence of a HB without words.

ANSWER: Hey, Jim. Thanks for your question. The answer to those very important questions depends on the specific situation becuase it would be different under different circumstances.  

Please describe in detail what kind of set-up you have in mind. Also, let me know how old you are, the place of your potential interaction with a woman and what exactly you perceive as "bitch shield."  

Let me know, and I will follow up.

A.I.
www.PracticalHappiness.com

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QUESTION: Hiya Arkady,
Setting:College
Age:20
"bitch shield":I mean by the immediate indication when a hot woman knows you are interested in her(they are good at knowing this!) and immediately she puts up an invisible shield which gives the guy the impression she's a bitch(but she's not). I think its almost unconscious to test the mans frame because she is approached by lots of guys.   
Thanks

Answer
Hey, Jim. I have a few things to say about a bitch shield.
If it's real, then as a matter of principal I would not pursue that woman. My experience and extensive observation shows that the truly cool, interesting, attractive women know better and they don't have that shield. In most cases, bitch shield is an indicator of great insecurity, confusion and mental immaturity, so... why bother? Because they are hot? Well, there are many other women who are just as attractive but don't have the attitude. They are probably spending their time in different places and doing different things but they certainly are out there.

Often, however, men mistake insecurity and shyness for bitch shield. Therefore, it's better to try and not assume that a woman is snoody just because she doesn't make eye contact or isn't friendly immediately.

But if she does come across as a bitch, she probably is and then, the sooner you move on and away from her, the better off you will be.

Thanks,

A.I.
www.PracticalHappiness.com
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