Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 9/11/2007

Question
Hi, there is this girl at my school who i want to ask out really badly but when ever i try to talk to her i get nervous and forget what i was going to say. I have only talked a little bit with her but it was nothing much. Please give me some advice on what to say to her or how to ask her to go out with me. There is a school dance coming up so the sooner the better. I already know that she is not dating someone else.

Thank you so much

Answer
Hello Drew!

The reason you're forgetting what you want to say is that you're trying to use some elaborate pick-up line or reasoning for approaching. Don't do this. ("KISS") "Keep It Simple, Stupid!"

Just use some context to approach her and let her carry the ball. Women are all about talking. All you need to do is to give her some open-ended questions and let her run with it. For much more on this, go to my website (http://beingaman.com) and click on "self help". There, you'll find my FAQ's and some great information on open-ended questions.

Just think KISS!

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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