How to Attract the Woman of Your Dreams/How to get her attention

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Expert: Aaron Beck - 3/2/2007


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"hi AB



This is paul walker.last year i saw a girl in my class(She's 16 & am 14), she attended classes only for about 4 weeks and she didn't even smile at me.unfortunately she left the class before i could say hello.after about 6 months i saw her standing near st.paul's college gate with her sister.Then i went there on the next day and i saw her there again.so i stalked her for months but i didn't have the guts to do anything about it but to see her from afar and love her from afar.i never saw her on that spot again this year, i saw only her sister.now how should i approach to that girl,how to make her love me,how to get her details and what should be my next move?



need your help

with regards PAUL"


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Paul,

I think I have already made some comments about this to you.  Is this the same girl who has a sister that you know?  Possibly it is a duplicate question?

I told you that I think the age difference is going to be an issue but that should not stop you -- in fact it could make it easier because she won't immediately think you are trying to "pick her up" when you talk to her.  If this is a new question (not one that I have already answered), write back and let me know and maybe I can add some more insight.

Aaron

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Aaron Beck

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Co-author of How to Introduce Yourself To A Woman (and seminar by the same name) and Meeting Women: The European Method. I have worked with thousands of men to meet the women they are most interested in.

For many men, approaching women is so stressful and so anxiety-inducing that very often they simply don’t do it -- certainly not as often as they'd like.

The solutions are often surprisingly simple, usually requiring just a slight shift in perspective and a little technique.

I will answer most questions about meeting women but I concentrate on the initial approach phase because that seems to cause the most problems. Good Luck!

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In addition to the two books (How to Introduce Yourself to a Woman and Meeting Women: The European Method), I've held several dozen seminars (in the U.S., the U.K. and Germany) on meeting and dating women. I have worked with over 10,000 men (directly or through my publications) in this area.

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Bachelor of Science, Electrical Engineering; Masters, Applied Game Theory, PhD (candidate), Empirical Psychology.

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