Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 1/2/2007

Question
There Is a Girl In my Tutions, Sometimes she watches me, We do not
talk to each other as we have not introduce ourself to each other.There
is
no time before the tution or after the tution and even between the
tutions so that i can talk to her & i do not have that courage to talk
to
her.Whenever I wish to talk to
her then i go near her & later i am unable to say something. Please
Tell me what shud i do I dont know whether she likes me or not.I m GOin
Crazy For her. I don`t know how to attract her.

Answer
Hello Sahil!

What you're really asking me is how to make HER do all your work for you. Sahil, that doesn't work. It's your job to either move this forward or not - and she knows it.

If you don't have any time to talk to her, what can you do? You are either going to have to make this time or just accept that you can't have her. The real question is what is most important to you: keeping your shyness intact or being with this girl?

If you really want to be with her, you're going to have to not only make the time, (and that means, not waiting for the "perfect" time - just moving ahead) but you're going to have to approach her too and get it out of the way. There's no way for me to tell you if she's interested in you or not as I don't read minds.

If you're not willing to take the risk, then do nothing. Just admire her from afar and hope that you'll get brave some day. Otherwise you're going to have to approach her.

Just walk up to her the very next time you see her (don't wait any longer!) and say, "Hey, you seem like a nice person and I'd like to get to know you better. Let's get together for coffee."

Sahil, it's really that simple - and easy! You just have to be willing to move ahead and break out of your shyness.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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