Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 6/10/2007

Question
hello, i have met this increidbly amazing girl the other week and straight away we was attracted to each other , i got her number , we kissed and arranged to talk later , everything was going fine and dandy and i couldnt get her out of my mind, we arranged to meet on a saturday to go to the pictures and watch a film with friends , we hit it off straight from the word go,we didnt watch any of the film and it was amazing , but i feel that she is totally out of my league and that some other lad will come in and take over unless i act in a way what will win her over? i am not wasting your time i have never felt this way about any body before and i just want to talk to her and ask her what she`s up to but i dont want to come n "too strong"? should i call her once everyday to ask ehr how her day has been because i hate not talknig to her.
regards x x x  

Answer
Hello Sam!

No, I'd avoid calling her every day. That's far too often - even if you really, really want to! You should only call her about once every 2-4 days. In fact, it's best if you don't use the phone to try to hold your dates, but only use it to set-up dates and hold them in person.

The reason for this is simple: her feminine mind. Her mind can do more to build you up than you could ever do by yourself. If you don't give her time to miss you, this critical function never happens! That's why you want to space out your connections with her.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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