How to Attract the Woman of Your Dreams/conversation

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i meet an old class mate of mine,she is that kind of cool gal,and i don know what have to talk to her.she complain that I less talk.i don know what should i ask and make a conversation so that the atmosphere wont be silent.plz help me on this.thank you so much..  

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Hello Chian!

The trick to communications is to realize what everyone is interested in: themselves.

I'm always amazed at this - men think they have to entertain someone (by making conversation) and women think that men should just open themselves up without any effort on their part.

There are 3 great articles on the art of conversation on my website and they're easy to find. Go to http://beingaman.com and click on "Self Help". There, you'll find my FAQ's. Read them and they'll take you right to the articles.

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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, dating and sex, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers from all over the world. I'm able to answer literally any question regarding dating, finding and approaching women, sex, getting phone numbers, setting dates, what to do on dates, how to set them (and make sure she shows), dealing with dating problems, conversion from dates to relationships, etc. Check my website at: http://beingaman.com for much more. If your question is particularly sensitive you can email me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.

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Having helped over 30,000 people with their issues, I'm certainly qualified to help you with yours. I don't take the "feel good" approach at all. I'm direct and that comes from experience and research into what really works.

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