Expert: PracticalHappiness.com - 12/19/2006

Question
hi mr expert,i all ready got a reply for my one problem,thanx.now i am brown colour skin international student in australia and i am doing dishwashing part time job in a restaurent.while i am working i dont get much time to speake with waiter girls.this christmas we had party and i was so drunk.i never drunk so much .i ask from many girls weather they have a boy frind or not or if it is not can i apply for that???like that....then i felt after some time they dont wont to speake with me at all and they go away from me.and they did not say good bye to me.after that some of girls and i and my frinds went to some club but none of that girls dance with me.am i did some thing wrong....they think i am a play boy.but i am not.i never had girl frind and i just want to have some good girls.some of girls said to me stop looking girl and wait untill you girl come to you.they are not happy with me.
i am so confused.i am 23 years old and i have well build body.plese tell me what should i do??????how can i get that girls friendly again???
when i saw a girl haw to make a friend ship with her???

plese help me????
i was a good boy,but now i am feel i am going wrong way...i dont want to like that.when i ask one girl i like you,,can be your boy frind ,she said wait untill next christmas..what is that mean...plese explain,if she want to wait for her i can doit for her.

Answer
Hey, Nithin. I realize you have good intentions. The girl who told you "wait until next x-mass" was just joking with you and blowing you off.

Your whole approach is completely wrong and you have a lot to learn. But guess what, you have already started and that's great news.  

You do not ask a girl if she wants to be your girlfriend out of a blue. This will NEVER WORK with anybody! You have a real issue that requires a real solution. Some people will tell you that all you need is learning a few pick-up lines or wear different clothing, but all that is bs. There is a deeper issue that you should take care of, and then everything else will fall into place.  

To make a connection, you must:
1. Meet a girl by making a simple, neutral conversation.
2. Attract a girl through being funny, intereting, and different.
3. Ask her to meet for some simple activity, such as a cup of coffee and a walk.
And go from there.

In my best selling audio programs "Powerful Pick-Up" and "Powerful First Date" I discuss in great detail every stage of interacting women women for maximum success as well as how to avoid the common mistakes that most guys make that sabotage their love life. Check out my site at www.practicalhappiness.com - read my blog, listen to free audio samples and learn more about the programs.

And if you have more questions, feel free to follow up.  

Arkady Itkin
www.practicalhappiness.com