Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 5/23/2007

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QUESTION: Hmmm...guess we won't know unless he give me some more clues as to what kind of person he is. Maybe he was just doing it to be nice, cuz I mean the financial aid dept at our school is kinda slow, everyone knows my check might not come for weeks, and my roommate gave me 500 otherwise i woulda gotten kicked out of housing...so maybe he being a student knew about that situation with the dorms...was sympathetic to me, probably being through it himself, and offered me the 1000 dollars.

But still...that's a hell of a lot of money for him to offer a pretty girl! Don'tcha think?!? LOL!!!

-Ana

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Hi Dennis,

I met this guy I really like in school. When I talked to him he said he had broken up with his girlfriend a couple weeks before and didn't want anything to do with girls right now now that the month of exams and the stress of school had started. I do notice him looking over at me from time to time in class though but he has no expression although when he sees me he usually smiles and says hi.

I told him my financial aid loan check had not come in yet and I was completely broke until it came, and he said well if you need to borrow some money, you can borrow it from me. I said oh no, I would need like a thousand dollars, because 500 was the apartment security deposit and another 500 was this month's rent, and he said, that's ok, I can give it to you.

WHOA ok...who lets someone they just met 2 days before borrow a thousand dollars...this guy isn't super rich.

So is he being a nice guy, sympathetic to my situation because he is a broke student as well and understands what I am going through, or is there something more.

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Answer   Hello Ana!

I don't think him offering (stupidly) to lend you a grand is a sure sign of love or anything. Yes - he may be interested, but even then, you have to question both his methods and his sophistication.

At the very least, is he trying to buy your interest?

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
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ANSWER: Hey Ana!

Well, I don't know how pretty you are - maybe it's just a down-payment!!!

Best regards..

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
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Remington Publications
818.334.8826
www.beingaman.com
Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"


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QUESTION: HAHAHA I'm purrrrty hahah.

Well...so you think maybe he is slightly interested? He walks around with a very cold expression on his face, like he's above everyone and knows he's hot...but then when I talk to him or flirt with him, he's very responsive. Hmm.

Down payment eh. Maybe I should ask him not-so-subtly if he wants to make babies HAHAHAHAAAAAH!!!!!
ANSWER: Hey Ana!

I'll guarrantee this: if you say that, you'll DEFINITELY get an answer!

Best regards..

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
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Remington Publications
818.334.8826
www.beingaman.com
Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"

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QUESTION: Well it looks like we are going to spend some quality time together, because he is our student council president...and I am going to be treasurer...I put my name in as a joke and then I ended up accidently winning since no one else wanted the position. Errr....oops.

Ok well when we're going over the budget I can be like, 'we spend x amount on this, y amount on that...how bout z amount on some birth control pills for the two of us HAHAHAHAHAHHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!'

i wonder if that will get him to respond haha. I'll get him over his 'i dont' want anything to do with girls' attitude real fast hahaha!

Answer
Yo! Ana!

..or how 'bout, "Forget the budget and just kiss me you big dope!"

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.
Remington Publications
818.334.8826
www.beingaman.com
Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"