Expert: PracticalHappiness.com - 12/29/2007

Question
Hey,

I have been on a roller coaster with this girl who i really like. We were in a relationship for a while, then we were just dating, then she said she is starting to feel differently around me like as in just a friendship. I know i have created most of this by probly being to available while she was not available enough, making her seem smothered which led to loss of attraction and I see that now. I know i cant MAKE her interested in me again, but how can i give her the best opportunity to like me as more than a friend again? Its been about 2 weeks and I have pretty much left all the contact up to her to get her to miss me, which she didnt have the chance to do before which i believe is what ruined the relationship, and she has started contacting me more, showing more interest in my life. So how can I get her interested again or spark up what ever interest she has left to want more again? And what signs should I look for if she does start to feel differently?

Thanks!

Answer
Hey, Kyle. As harsh as it sounds, in your situation - you are much better off moving on! Any further effort to put things back together with this girl will likely be a waste of your time, energy, and emotions. Don't hurt yourself any further. Pursue other things and other women, and you will get over her  sooner than you might just think.

Thanks, and feel free to follow up.


A.I.
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