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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| Stuck | 10/5/2006 | Aaron Beck |
| Q: I met a girl in college. After having two classes with her one semester of somewhat being friends, ... A: Michael, I salute you for overcoming your shyness enough to continuing to try with this girl even ... | ||
| Woman interested?? | 10/5/2006 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I need some tips....I met this gal (for the first time) during a gathering at my place...while ... A: Wouldn't it be great if women would just come right out and say what they wanted - or didn't? It ... | ||
| Meeting Woman. | 10/5/2006 | Aaron Beck |
| Q: I need some tips....I met this gal (for the first time) during a gathering at my place...while ... A: John, I agree that if that guy was her boyfriend, she would have known that he had been to her ... | ||
| How to get a girl that is going out with someone else. | 10/5/2006 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: ------------------------- I'm not her friend yet. I was asking what to do. So what should I do, ... A: Then what exactly do you expect me to get from "...and we've become pretty good friends.."??? It ... | ||
| How to get a girl that is going out with someone else. | 10/4/2006 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I met this girl, and we've become pretty good friends. The probelm is that she has been dating a ... A: You're making a HUGE mistake here. You think that by being her "Friend" that when she breaks up with ... | ||
| What do I do? | 10/4/2006 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: So I'm just a little stuck on something here, don't know if this makes me a bad person or what not ... A: I can't tell you how many times I've met women where I wished one's personality was in the other's ... | ||
| how to ask for a date to an older woman who was d friend of my mom | 10/3/2006 | Adam |
| Q: sir hope to hear from u soon sir pls help me sir im in luv with this lady and i dont want to miss my ... A: Simple: You talk to her and then you get her number "You seem like a fun person we should get ... | ||
| How do I ask her? | 10/3/2006 | Aaron Beck |
| Q: Ok, so I'm 15 and there's this girl in my grade who's at least 6 months younger than me...not sure ... A: Kyle, Good news -- you are 100% normal. Questions dealing with shyness -- particularly toward a ... | ||
| Approaching a lady | 10/3/2006 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: How can i build my confidence with ladies? I don't know how to conversate with them A: There's a mistake most guys have - that confidence is something you "own". It's not. It's something ... | ||
| Just a Friend or possibly more?? | 10/1/2006 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I met a girl a couple months ago and we kissed and cuddled for a few hours. I tried get more ... A: I don't think her original intention was to be "friends", but that's exactly where it is now. This ... | ||
| Dealing with the Girl of my dreams | 10/1/2006 | Aaron Beck |
| Q: Beck your response was awesome. But now I have some more things to discuss...We still do spend a ... A: Michael, The only problem I have with “composure” (your word) -- which I take to mean demeanor or ... | ||
| relationship renew and trust | 9/30/2006 | Aaron Beck |
| Q: i can i build trust up in this man and not make this a permanet move, he states he needs time and ... A: Rhonda, I don't know how to answer that question. Possibly the best thing you can do is continue ... | ||
| relationship renew and trust | 9/30/2006 | Aaron Beck |
| Q: please help me im trying to heal him and trying to explain we can trust again.. i love him Please ... A: Rhonda, I will pray for you and Boyd. I would also like you to have faith in your prayers (and ... | ||
| new girl | 9/30/2006 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: hey i found this new girl shes in college right now she said she is goin to move over here when she ... A: Wait until she moves and start building up your chops in the meantime by dating other women. Then, ... | ||
| How To Meet Girls | 9/30/2006 | Aaron Beck |
| Q: I wanted to ask something..... I am 16 years old and currently in 11th grade and I really want to ... A: Carlos, The fact that you admit and are willing to work on your shyness is the best thing you have ... | ||
| How do I get to know her better? | 9/30/2006 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I'm Dave. Im in 11th grade, and recently I've met a girl who I think would be perfect for me. We are ... A: Women separate guys into two categories: those that they date and "friends". If your goal is to ... | ||
| Dealing with the Girl of my dreams | 9/29/2006 | Aaron Beck |
| Q: Beck I know this is not your expertise but your the active volunteer and I hope you can atleast ... A: Michael, I am going to give you some perspective on what you’ve asked but I will tell you up front ... | ||
| Will I seem over anxious?? | 9/29/2006 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Is it possible I've misinterpreted any of the signals I thought that I received? It's not like this ... A: Sure, it's absolutely possible. Women are experts at keeping their real feelings hidden from us ... | ||
| Will I seem over anxious?? | 9/29/2006 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Last weekend (a Sunday), I ran into a woman I went to grade school, junior high, and high school ... A: I'd trust your gut here. If you call her now while she's away, you're going to look to agressive. ... | ||
| Relationship with my female boss | 9/29/2006 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Ok, I got it. It's very stupid to pursue this older woman/boss fantasy. I like my job, I love my ... A: MM! You're absolutely right! I did miss that - my apologies. The first step is to prevent this ... | ||
| a hot girl | 9/28/2006 | Aaron Beck |
| Q: I'm 13 and she's 3 1/2 months younger than me. I love this girl at my school, but I am too shy to ... A: Dave, Often the thing that a girl find the most attractive about a boy is that he is interested in ... | ||
| my ex | 9/27/2006 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: every time i try to talk to her she does not want to talk i know she still loves me but its her bf ... A: No, you're ASSUMING that she still loves you because you still love her. Don't make assumptions - if ... | ||
| does she still want me | 9/27/2006 | Aaron Beck |
| Q: Hey i started Hanging out with this girl about a week ago. on the first night we hung out we drank ... A: Lost, I think you have to read her the “riot act” (as we used to say). There is no question she’s ... | ||
| winning back my girl | 9/27/2006 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Dennis W. Neder I think i should move on pluse in Russia there many butiful girls and geneva....What ... A: HELL NO! Don't send her the car! You don't owe her anything at this point, and you'll just feel like ... | ||
| Relationship with my female boss | 9/27/2006 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I started working at this new company a year ago as an entry level staff. My wife also works at this ... A: MM! Dude, are YOU walking the line of fire here or what???? What the hell are you thinking? You ... | ||
| She's 20, I'm 35, we connect, yet we don't? | 9/27/2006 | Aaron Beck |
| Q: My name is Paul. I am 35 years old and live in Orlando, Florida. There is a 20 year old woman at ... A: My name is Paul. I am 35 years old and live in Orlando, Florida. There is a 20 year old woman at ... | ||
| my ex | 9/27/2006 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: i went out with this girl when i was 16 after we broke up we lost contact but we now she has a bf ... A: You tell her (don't ASK her) to clear up her Friday night (or whenever) and that you and she are ... | ||
| more like a lack of dating... | 9/26/2006 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: ..well first let me start out by saying that I am only fourteen...which I know sounds like young and ... A: I'd sure like to know what you define as "normal". Personally, I've never met ANYONE that was ... | ||
| a hot girl | 9/26/2006 | Aaron Beck |
| Q: I love this girl at my school, but I am too shy to really talk to her. What should I do to win her ... A: Dave, Thank you for your honest and sincere question. I can tell you are really interested in this ... | ||
| winning back my girl | 9/26/2006 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Dennis W i have a problem i was going out with a girl in geneva Switzerland for 3 years we were ... A: Frankly, there's almost no chance of winning her back. She's right about the long-distance ... | ||
| Pursuing an old flame? | 9/26/2006 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: About seven years ago, I dated this girl casually for a couple of weeks. I met her through a mutual ... A: I tell guys this fact all the time: it's easier to steal someone else's girlfriend than to keep one ... | ||
| How to attract a guy you like | 9/26/2006 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Neder, Thank you very much for your advice, but it isn't a celebrity, lol. It's a regular person. ... A: Well, you know what they say - if you want good answers, be able to ask good questions! I don't ... | ||
| how to get the girl of my dreams to notice me | 9/26/2006 | Aaron Beck |
| Q: my name is richard. i am in the 10th grade. there is this girl that is in 3 of my classes. she is ... A: I can tell you are really interested in this girl and I will do my best to provide you some insight. ... | ||
| DOES SHE REALLY WANT TO DATE ME? | 9/25/2006 | Aaron Beck |
| Q: Although it was a bit late. I strongly think alike with you as regard her behavour toward she dating ... A: Trams, I think you are doing great with this woman. Everything is going great. How can you doubt ... | ||
| Girl that I like...alot | 9/25/2006 | Aaron Beck |
| Q: Well, for the past two years there has been a girl I just can't stop liking. We liked eachother for ... A: Zach, I think you already have her but you just don’t know it. Women (of any age) look to men for ... | ||
| amor II | 9/23/2006 | Aaron Beck |
| Q: ------------------------- Followup To god bless you for your answer, I liked I hada had this ... A: Aurax, I think I have already answered this question?? You have to be the leader, especially with ... | ||
| Whats the best way to break the ice? | 9/22/2006 | Aaron Beck |
| Q: I see plenty of women during the course of my day(in college, at starbucks, etc.) Many I wanna say ... A: Patrick, You have asked the question that all men want to know the answer to. What I have found is ... | ||
| help | 9/22/2006 | Aaron Beck |
| Q: ------------------------- Followup To the problem is that the other day she went out from the ... A: Aurax, You have already told me that you have a tendency to fall in love too quickly or to become ... | ||
| The girl of my DREAMS | 9/22/2006 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I am a 15 year old and I really like this girl a lot. We talk sometimes, sometimes say hello, and ... A: By "attract her" do you mean make her so interested in you that she does all your work for you? Not ... | ||
| How to get her to like me | 9/21/2006 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Ok well there is this new girl and she likes me and i like her. So i was talking to one of her ... A: I think I've already answered this question for you. Best regards... Dr. Dennis W. Neder ... | ||
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