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SubjectDate AskedExpert
reserved girl4/6/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: There's this girl who's my editor in the school newspaper crew, an open mic hostess who pulled me ...
  A: First, you've got to get through that wall. The best way to do that is to get HER talking - if she ...
GIrl4/6/2008Mark Rosmar
  Q: "Hi my name is Aaron and i am 17 years old. basicly there is a girl who is also 17 that i really ...
  A: Aaron, Thanks for your note. You need to roll with the flow; don't try to convince her of ...
GIrls4/6/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: "Hi my name is Aaron and i am 17 years old. basicly there is a girl who is also 17 that i really ...
  A: If you and she are really friends, I'm afraid it's game-over. You NEVER want to become friends with ...
How to Attract the girl I like4/5/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Dennis. I would like that you help me with this: There is a girl in my class that I really like. I ...
  A: First off, you've got to get this outside of school or at least outside of class. Invite her to have ...
I made mistakes4/4/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: So I'm 21 and I have been dating this girl for 2 years. when we first started dating after about 2-3 ...
  A: Frankly, I think you're taking on far too much responsibility for her problems. That's sure a nice, ...
tips for an awesome first date4/3/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: hey doc, its jarred ive had my eye on this girl for awhile now and i just got my new truck ive ...
  A: The best time to ask is always the same: right now. Don't wait on these things. When you're ready - ...
help4/1/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: man ive got a problem im 18 years old now and in my book im nowhere near as successful with women as ...
  A: I'm glad I could help. It's not hard once you have a good understanding of the issues and the tools ...
help4/1/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: man ive got a problem im 18 years old now and in my book im nowhere near as successful with women as ...
  A: This is a really great question, and in fact, you're asking the right question. Most guys ask the ...
Some nice lines3/30/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Every night I tell her something like YOU ARE THE SUNSHINE OF MY LIFE, FROM WHERE DID YOU GET THAT ...
  A: Let's see here, so you just re-heat some tired old lines from songs and she gets turned on? Holy ...
Working on getting my ex back after i pushed her away3/29/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: My ex broke up with me after a year and a 2 months, basically i have ended up pushing her away due ...
  A: Is there a less-harsh way? Sure, you could beg and plead with her. You can promise that you'll ...
questiosn3/29/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: i like this girl and we were writing on a napkin to communicate. we were writing sarcastic banter on ...
  A: First of all, you don't have sexual tension here - at least any that I can see. What you have here ...
Working on getting my ex back after i pushed her away3/28/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: My ex broke up with me after a year and a 2 months, basically i have ended up pushing her away due ...
  A: Now, here's the real kicker: there *IS* someone better out there. The problem is that if you're ...
SHY GIRL!3/27/2008Mark Rosmar
  Q: my ex girlfriend and my best friends ex girlfriend are best friends and.. my best friends ex girl ...
  A: If you need help beyond the point of "hello," I would advise you to get and read my book, only ...
SHY GIRL!3/27/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: my ex girlfriend and my best friends ex girlfriend are best friends and.. my best friends ex girl ...
  A: NO, NO, NO!!!! YOU DO ***NOT*** want to become her friend first!!! Don't do that or you'll never, ...
being the of her dreams3/26/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I REALLY LIKE R SHALL I SAY LOVED THIS GIRL WE KNOWN EACH OTHER FOR 3 YEAR AND HALF BUT SHE ONLY ...
  A: What probabaly seemed like a simple question is actually extremely complicated to answer. You're not ...
How long should I wait?3/24/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Here is the situation, I know this girl, we've know each other ever since we were little kids. Her ...
  A: As I've already told you - get your buddy to help. This is called "social proof" which means he's ...
how can i...3/23/2008Mark Rosmar
  Q: i am 18 years old and have liked this girl for a couple of years.recently i have been seeing her ...
  A: What type of guy does she know you as? In order for her to perceive you as anything different than ...
Adding Women on Myspace3/23/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I have been adding random people that I do not know onto my Myspace. The problem is I don't know ...
  A: This is a huge blunder on myspace's part. I much prefer the way it's done on facebook or linkedin ...
Adding Women on Myspace3/23/2008Mark Rosmar
  Q: I have been adding random people that I do not know onto my Myspace. The problem is I don't know ...
  A: The easy way to start conversations is to just find out if they have anything in common with you, if ...
stepping it up3/23/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I am fifteen and in high school I have known this girl since the fourth grade and have liked her ...
  A: It doesn't matter whether she's being flirty with you or not. What matters is what YOU want. ...
love proposal3/23/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Respected dennis sir, I am 22 year old final year b.e. student and last year ...
  A: You live in India, right? I know because this is the most common question I get from you guys. ...
How long should I wait?3/23/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Here is the situation, I know this girl, we've know each other ever since we were little kids. Her ...
  A: How long should you wait??? You should NEVER wait! You're already too late. (This is going to turn ...
dating advice3/22/2008Mark Rosmar
  Q: I'm 16 and I'm having problems asking this girl out. Here's the situation, i have known this girl ...
  A: You want it all ways, don't you? Well you are going to have to do some work. The best way to "ask ...
How can i get over this girl ?3/20/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Yesterday i went to a persian new year's festival gathering & i saw 1 girl who was SOO pretty. She ...
  A: Happy Norooz! She rejected you because you were a weak coward and asked your friend to approach her ...
How can i get over this girl ?3/20/2008Mark Rosmar
  Q: Yesterday i went to a persian new year's festival gathering & i saw 1 girl who was SOO pretty. She ...
  A: The reason she "rejected" you was because she doesn't know you. On the other hand, if you give ...
Ex interest3/19/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I think you give great advice - straight and to the point. I'm wondering how you can tell if your ...
  A: No change, although the way to handle this issue is to tell her she's NOT their mother and she ...
Ex interest3/18/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I think you give great advice - straight and to the point. I'm wondering how you can tell if your ...
  A: First of all, I'm glad you ended the relationship and not the other way around. If this had been ...
meeting girls3/15/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: im 18 years old and am a senior in high school. i really want to be able to meet girls. how do i do ...
  A: You make a decision. What is it you want in your life? Do you want to be alone or do you want to be ...
I like a girl thatīs my friend3/15/2008Mark Rosmar
  Q: Well there is a girl in my class thatīs my friend and i really like her a lot and my questions are: ...
  A: Short answers, you know if a woman likes you by the way that she treats you when you get to know ...
Does she like me?3/10/2008Mark Rosmar
  Q: I have a question to ask. Theres a girl that I really like. I asked her out to a dance 2 weeks ago, ...
  A: I really have no idea. It could be a hundred reasoNS, the younger she is maybe more. All I'd say is ...
Women3/10/2008Mark Rosmar
  Q: OK- how does one approach a strange woman in a bar or coffee shop or somewhere? That's something ...
  A: Ask her about the locality or some other non-obvious question. This is one of the better ...
What can I do so a girl will notice/like me???3/5/2008Mark Rosmar
  Q: I'm a sophomore in high school and there is this girl that I like. I have lunch and English with her ...
  A: Definitely. Stop being so available. As you see demonstrated before you every day, and in life. The ...
communication issues3/3/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: There is this girl that has an attitude/personality of one that is an easy talker, knows her stuff, ...
  A: Excellent question! This girl is likely using all sorts of communication tricks and techniques in ...
well you see theres this girl3/3/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: hey doc i need help, i am a freshman in high school and there is this girl that i like. as of a ...
  A: Here's the mistake you're making: thinking that she has to be attracted to you first. That's not the ...
dating3/2/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: hey, im todd and ive been seeing this girl off and on for like a month or so and i noticed that she ...
  A: Why are you waiting for her to do all the work? She doesn't want to kiss you - she wants YOU TO KISS ...
please help me!!3/2/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: theres been times when I've been able to get her laughing but not able to keep a conversation. i've ...
  A: The reason why you're not getting anywhere is that you're not getting the whole story. You're using ...
over-sensitive?3/1/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: im am finding it tough finding a woman to fall in love with. The thing is I feel the guilt of acting ...
  A: Interestingly, you probably don't really know what an Alpha is - few people do. Acting "tough" is ...
help my brother2/29/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: he likes a girl in his class, He's a total wreck when it comes to girls, but he really likes this ...
  A: You shouldn't tell her. That's not how it works. Many guys think that by telling some girl they like ...
Falling for an (somewhat) older man2/27/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: A month ago I met an amazing man; handsome, in-shape, caring, respectful, educated, and with a ...
  A: First of all, what's "wrong" here is believing that you're giving him (or giving into) anything. Sex ...
LUV2/27/2008Mark Rosmar
  Q: AM 23 AND A STUDENT, PLS WHEN AM MATURE TO START A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX
  A: and thanks for your question. Maturity is all in the mind and strictly speaking whenever you think ...

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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, dating and sex, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers from all over the world. I'm able to answer literally any question regarding dating, finding and approaching women, sex, getting phone numbers, setting dates, what to do on dates, how to set them (and make sure she shows), dealing with dating problems, conversion from dates to relationships, etc. Check my website at: http://beingaman.com for much more. If your question is particularly sensitive you can email me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.

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