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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| I need some advice please..... | 5/2/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Ok well hear is my story very long, Its been 7 months I been with my girl and it seems now we hit a ... A: So what do you want? You spent 3/4's of this letter telling me how much you love her and how in love ... | ||
| end product | 4/29/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I seem to get lost sometimes after Ive made an approach to a woman chatting about absolutely nothing ... A: Actually, this is pretty common. The problem either is that you're not building enough rapport and ... | ||
| timing | 4/29/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: alright mate, I seem to get lost sometimes after Ive made an approach to a woman chatting about ... A: By forming natural conversations with women, you have shown that you are breaking a barrier which ... | ||
| Knowing when she is interested | 4/28/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Hey there. I have been reading your posting and I like what you have to say so i want to get your ... A: Did you even bother to look at that video or read the FAQ's like I suggested? That's where you're ... | ||
| sleeze | 4/28/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Im 27 and just not as successful with women as I think I should be. Ive had some limited success ... A: There are a number of skills that all guys need to learn. The approach is one of them. Another is ... | ||
| slow or fast | 4/28/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: well theres this girl and shes one of my freinds and i like her more than a friend and i want her to ... A: http://beingaman.com/bamtv.asp Watch the video there on Friends. Then, click on Self Help and read ... | ||
| Knowing when she is interested | 4/28/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Hey there. I have been reading your posting and I like what you have to say so i want to get your ... A: First of all, you need to know - you're late - maybe too late now. If you're hanging out with this ... | ||
| Should i take it slow or what.... | 4/27/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: well theres this girl who wont get off my mind. she is one of my friends but i like her more than a ... A: I don't get this. Did you go out on a date with her already or not? Is she a "friend" or not? Is ... | ||
| Finding My Alpha Soulmate | 4/27/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I don't know if you could help me because I am not a guy looking for a female, but I have been ... A: You have two issues to deal with here. First of all, the lesbian community is rather small. That ... | ||
| Finding My Alpha Soulmate | 4/26/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I don't know if you could help me because I am not a guy looking for a female, but I have been ... A: Actually, I work with and help just as many women as I do men, so that's not a problem here. Let me ... | ||
| Her | 4/23/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: Mark .. My name is Cash Olds and i am in love with this girl i am 14 years old and i know i am in ... A: I felt that way too when I was your age. Until I started to open my eyes and see how many girls they ... | ||
| How can I make this work? | 4/22/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Dr. Neder I'd like to ask you on how I can simply put, attract a girl I've had my eye on for some ... A: You're very welcome. As soon as you start talking about "surefire" and "for sure" or anything else ... | ||
| Are these signs of checkin you out ? | 4/22/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: If i catch a girl looking at me and she instantly looks away, is she checking me out ? Also, if i ... A: Yeah, she's checkin' you out. The problem is that's not your question. Your question is whether ... | ||
| should i have went for it? | 4/22/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: hey doc, ive had feelings for this girl for a very long time and it was a beautiful day the other ... A: I don't know if she wanted it or not. I wasn't there. Why do so many people think I can read minds? ... | ||
| How can I make this work? | 4/22/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Dr. Neder I'd like to ask you on how I can simply put, attract a girl I've had my eye on for some ... A: You avoid the friend-zone by taking control of the relationship, being the leader and directing ... | ||
| Advice | 4/22/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: Hey there, I need some advice... I am 16 years old in a small high school... See, theres this girl ... A: with the mental obstacles which you have created for yourself with this girl, there could probably ... | ||
| very important | 4/20/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: there is this girl that i like that only see her a few times a day at school. the only time i see ... A: Ok, so exactly what are you looking for? Are you hoping that she'll just become magically attracted ... | ||
| very important | 4/19/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: there is this girl that i like that only see her a few times a day at school. the only time i see ... A: Actually, this approach is very, very simple. The very next time you see her in the hallway walking ... | ||
| I got 2 questions one about context and the other about your books | 4/18/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: FirstI'm interested in buying one or more of your books..could you tell me which one of your books ... A: Hey Eric! Sure Eric, I can give you a pick-up line, but didn't we already agree that this wasn't ... | ||
| I got 2 questions one about context and the other about your books | 4/17/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: FirstI'm interested in buying one or more of your books..could you tell me which one of your books ... A: That's actually a very large question with tons of considerations to it. I'll leave the books to ... | ||
| I got 2 questions one about context and the other about your books | 4/17/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: FirstI'm interested in buying one or more of your books..could you tell me which one of your books ... A: My second book "Being a Man in a Woman's World II" goes into context in great depth including ... | ||
| Japanese girls | 4/16/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Yes, I have a question about Japanese girls do they like only whites, or are they open to all races. ... A: Yes, Japanese girls only like white guys - particularly in Hawaiian shirts. It brings a feel of the ... | ||
| Is she playing games or hard to get? | 4/15/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Dr. Neder, I've known that Heather liked me for a long time, but could do nothing about it because ... A: From what you've told me, I get the impression that the only one intersted here is you. In fact, ... | ||
| meeting women | 4/14/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: I am having trouble meeting women and i know why. I am a good looking, athletically fit guy and i ... A: one of the best ways to meet women in public is to get familiar with smiling and saying hello to ... | ||
| how do i my love back | 4/14/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: hey, i am 15 years old and i am in love with this girl. i know i know everyone tells me that im too ... A: Simple: treat her like any other athlete there. Don't give her any special attention or anything ... | ||
| how do i my love back | 4/13/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: hey, i am 15 years old and i am in love with this girl. i know i know everyone tells me that im too ... A: Why would you respect that? What's wrong with her that she doesn't "feel like dating right now"? Is ... | ||
| this one girl..... | 4/12/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: so. theres this one girl that goes to my school that i really like. she kinda knows me but not that ... A: Directly. You just walk up to her, use context as a reason to approach her, small-talk for just a ... | ||
| this one girl..... | 4/11/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: so. theres this one girl that goes to my school that i really like. she kinda knows me but not that ... A: Here's the problem with thisit's far too broad to give you a good answer. I can summarize the steps, ... | ||
| What should I be feeling? What will happen? | 4/10/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I'm a 21 year old college student and two months ago, I met a girl who is exactly my personality and ... A: What should you be feeling??? How about loss, hurt, anger, etc., etc.? You aren't the source of ... | ||
| help my friend please.. | 4/10/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: ok.. i am a 20 yr old female who has a friend that is in need of help in the dating world.. ive ... A: I'm very proud of your love and consideration for your friend in trying to help him. I'll say this ... | ||
| dating | 4/10/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Ok well I've known this girl since 7th grade. I'm in 9th grade so 2 years. We're not that good of ... A: You don't "ask her" you TELL HER. Your invitation to hang out (which frankly, is a concept I hate!) ... | ||
| grin | 4/9/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: I like this guy at school. He was talking to his guy buddies about a porn movie he had seen. I ... A: I believe that if your viewing of porn turned him on that much he would probably have indicated this ... | ||
| dating | 4/9/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Ok well I've known this girl since 7th grade. I'm in 9th grade so 2 years. We're not that good of ... A: Here's the right time to ask her out: RIGHT NOW!!! You've already known this girl for 2 freakin' ... | ||
| should I change? | 4/8/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Hey doc I am wondering whether or not I should change the way I am for a girl that I want to be with ... A: Hey Stephen! Two of them: 1) "Context". This is your reason to approach them and basically is just ... | ||
| Become the type of guy that girls like | 4/8/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: When I was young, my parents always told me to study hard and thats what the girls like. Do you ... A: LOL...your parents sure knew how to motivate you! Too bad they didn't know what girls like. Your ... | ||
| should I change? | 4/7/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Hey doc I am wondering whether or not I should change the way I am for a girl that I want to be with ... A: Not necessarily. In fact, she may very well be trying to get you to be more masculine. The real ... | ||
| should I change? | 4/7/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Hey doc I am wondering whether or not I should change the way I am for a girl that I want to be with ... A: ?? Absolutely not. No way. Never. DO NOT change yourself to fit some girl! There are quite a few ... | ||
| help | 4/7/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I went to the movies with this girl that I really like and we almost were about to kiss but we got ... A: First of all, I don't recommend movies or concerts for first dates. You need "face time" in order to ... | ||
| Me and a girl got way too close too quickly | 4/6/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: It was almost perfect for the first five weeks. We were in a place of love I had never been ... A: I'm in the honesty/reality business. You're coming from a place of total fantasy. I have to believe ... | ||
| reserved girl | 4/6/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: There's this girl who's my editor in the school newspaper crew, an open mic hostess who pulled me ... A: Jake, It depend on how much time you have. A woman doesn't want to come over as easy, so she'll ... | ||
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Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, dating and sex, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers from all over the world. I'm able to answer literally any question regarding dating, finding and approaching women, sex, getting phone numbers, setting dates, what to do on dates, how to set them (and make sure she shows), dealing with dating problems, conversion from dates to relationships, etc. Check my website at: http://beingaman.com for much more. If your question is particularly sensitive you can email me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.
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Having helped over 30,000 people with their issues, I'm certainly qualified to help you with yours. I don't take the "feel good" approach at all. I'm direct and that comes from experience and research into what really works.
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