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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| i really like this girl and she knows it | 5/23/2008 | Ana |
| Q: i like this girl at my school and she knows i like her so i show her that i like her by giving her ... A: Say "hey I'm going to this nice restaurant next weekend, want to come with me, if you do give me ... | ||
| Reveal Feelings. | 5/22/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Neder. There's this girl that I really like for the last four months but I haven't told her how I ... A: DO NOT "reveal your feelings"!!! If you do, you'll never have another chance with this girl ever ... | ||
| help | 5/21/2008 | Ana |
| Q: hey I'm chris. let me give you the facts real quick. i was starting wide reciever and backup ... A: I loooooooooove P.F. Chang's! GREAT choice! i would totaly love it if a guy took me there. hmm...but ... | ||
| help | 5/20/2008 | Ana |
| Q: hey I'm chris. let me give you the facts real quick. i was starting wide reciever and backup ... A: Hey, Well during the movie put your arm around her shoulder and snuggle in close. I guess ... | ||
| help | 5/20/2008 | Ana |
| Q: hey I'm chris. let me give you the facts real quick. i was starting wide reciever and backup ... A: Hey Chris, LOL you and I have the same life story, except mine is the girl version. Back in high ... | ||
| girls | 5/19/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: well I'm the starting Wide reciever for the freshman football team. i play baseball and made the ... A: No, being shy isn't part of the problem - it's THE problem. Acting shy comes off as insecure to ... | ||
| the girl of my dreams | 5/19/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: well theres this girl at school that I've known since 7th grade, I'm in 9th now. I've always thought ... A: Hold on there big fella! You're sure giving this girl one hellofa lot of power over you! "Girl of ... | ||
| hot girl giving me grief | 5/18/2008 | Ana |
| Q: I recently got this really hot girl to agree to give me her phone number and we have been flirting ... A: Yeah I am really surprised that she didn't kiss you. Well there are certainly cultural differences ... | ||
| Need your advice | 5/18/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: "So I started dating my BEST friend of six years. She had gone out with a friend of mine in the ... A: Honestly, I don't think you stand any further chance now. There are a ton of dynamics going on here ... | ||
| hot girl giving me grief | 5/18/2008 | Ana |
| Q: I recently got this really hot girl to agree to give me her phone number and we have been flirting ... A: Hey, don't feel bad. Yes, she was definitely interested in you. When you got back to her flat she ... | ||
| One Confused Desperato | 5/18/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: There is this girl i met about a year ago, her name is michelle. Our first meet was just at a party. ... A: Only you would have the answer to that question and maybe you should move on; but what I would ... | ||
| One Confused Desperato | 5/18/2008 | Ana |
| Q: There is this girl i met about a year ago, her name is michelle. Our first meet was just at a party. ... A: Yes, you're going to have to give this one up. Reason being: when us ladies like you, we DON'T play ... | ||
| how to get the girl of my dreams | 5/17/2008 | Ana |
| Q: my name's russell, and i've got a huge crush on this girl in school, i've known her for 3 years and ... A: Hey! Oh jeez, this situation happens to EVERYONE at some point, trust me on this one. LOL! So ... | ||
| getting a girl to date me | 5/15/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Ok, here is the problem. Me and this girl have been friends all through high school but since ... A: I'm going to answer your question, but I want you to stop and think about this for a minute: ... | ||
| confused | 5/15/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: There's this girl at school, whom all of a sudden became realy freindly to me, always saying hi ... A: Hey Jeff! If you're more afraid of asking her than of being alone, then be alone the rest of your ... | ||
| confused | 5/15/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: there is a girl at school who suddenly became realy freindly, like saying Hi whenever she saw me, or ... A: She is just being friendly. I am afraid you will have to do the work to attract this woman, as this ... | ||
| a good friend but more | 5/15/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I'm 17 and i cant say im real experienced when it comes to girls. I've had a few short ... A: When do you approach her? A long time ago! Andy, the problem here is that you went for the ... | ||
| How to make Girl Friend | 5/14/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: i am BPO Industry Employee.and i am from India so i got brown color skin and i am little bit Fat.i ... A: First of all, is that really what you want from girls - friendship? I don't think so. I think you'd ... | ||
| confused | 5/13/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: There's this girl at school, whom all of a sudden became realy freindly to me, always saying hi ... A: You should have closed her - asked for her number or (better) asked her out on a date. Best ... | ||
| Real Men | 5/13/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I have been working on putting together a few work shops for women on how to attract the kind of ... A: Actually, we have just such a group! You can find it here: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/beingaman. ... | ||
| Real Men | 5/12/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I have been working on putting together a few work shops for women on how to attract the kind of ... A: It's particularly heartening to hear that you accept "The Test" for what it is. You'd be surprised ... | ||
| what should i do? | 5/12/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: my girlfriend of 2 and a half years has recently said she wanted time and space, so i let her. ad ... A: Yo! Chris! The only answer I have for you is a trite one: time. Well, there *is* another tool I ... | ||
| what should i do? | 5/12/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: my girlfriend of 2 and a half years has recently said she wanted time and space, so i let her. ad ... A: Neglect is certainly a bad thing, but not as bad as dumping you by lying you to about being on a ... | ||
| a broken heart | 5/12/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: i happen to no my girl through my ex girl friend which happen to be a friend of my girl friend and ... A: and thanks for your letter. Well seems like the girl has made up her mind and the best advise is to ... | ||
| confused | 5/12/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: There's this girl at school, whom all of a sudden became realy freindly to me, always saying hi ... A: Yes, I think she had feelings for you and she just got tired and fed-up with waiting for you to do ... | ||
| confused | 5/12/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: There's this girl at school, whom all of a sudden became realy freindly to me, always saying hi ... A: and thanks for your letter. You should have reciprocated with the girl when she was being friendly ... | ||
| I am crazy about her. | 5/12/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: Well I am a senior in High School and I'm about to graduate and I really like this girl. I have been ... A: and thanks for your question. You say that "she is beautiful, smart, and fun to be around," well ... | ||
| have a female freind that seems to give mixed feelins | 5/11/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: Have had my freind living with me for a while now, seems she wants to be freinds as she has been ... A: and thanks for your question. This woman is just using you for a free ride. I am not saying that ... | ||
| what should i do? | 5/10/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: my girlfriend of 2 and a half years has recently said she wanted time and space, so i let her. ad ... A: What she wanted was a "break", and yes, it was your fault, but not because you didn't want to go ... | ||
| ask out girl of my dreams | 5/10/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: i'm fat , and i got bad breath.What can i do to ask my friend a.k.a the girl of my dreams out? A: Start by brushing your teeth, getting in shape and getting your attitude straightened out! Why ... | ||
| lost love | 5/9/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I lost the love of my dreams but I want to get back with her. Can you tell me how please? We were ... A: LOL! Did my ex-wife put you up to this???? She tried to arrange your death and she's mentally ill? ... | ||
| What should I do.... | 5/8/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: my situation is a bit complex, I am with a girl, I'll call her Caty (and we have been together over ... A: If you don't want to be disrespectful to Caty then why are you even asking me this question??? Do ... | ||
| What should I do.... | 5/8/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: my situation is a bit complex, I am with a girl, I'll call her Caty (and we have been together over ... A: It doesn't sound like you're married to Caty or that you're very committed to her. In fact, I think ... | ||
| how do i | 5/8/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Iv noticed recently that iv been slowly attracted to one of my friends im really not sure what to ... A: Why do you want to make her notice you - so that she'll do your work for you and you won't have to ... | ||
| geting the | 5/6/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: i have loved one woman,i told her my feeling but she said no, what do i do? A: and thanks for your question. By admission, you seem to be making alll the classic mistakes with ... | ||
| dating | 5/5/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: I really like this guy at my graduate school. He is very handsome and experienced with many women. ... A: Contrary to what you may think I believe he is flirting with you. Maybe the youth and naievety ... | ||
| the friend zone | 5/5/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: i started to develop feelings for one my best female friend. ive know her for almost 4 years, and ... A: What should you do? Dump this friend and go find a girlfriend - then, don't become her friend first! ... | ||
| How long should I wait? | 5/3/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Here is the situation, I know this girl, we've know each other ever since we were little kids. Her ... A: Hey Rick! Help you? Help you with what - screwing this up permanently??? You've already done huge ... | ||
| uhh | 5/2/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: well the question kinda askes itsel dosent it? how can u attrack the woman of ur dreams ? of ya by ... A: The problem is that it doesn't answer itself! Ty, that's a huge - and misdirected question. What ... | ||
| well... | 5/2/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: well the question kinda askes itsel dosent it? how can u attrack the woman of ur dreams ? of ya by ... A: And thanks for your letter. Of cousre you can!!! Just be a friendly, self-assured person and talk ... | ||
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