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friends6/8/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Dennis, i used to be realy good friends with this guy joel. him and i started being friends back in ...
  A: Wait just a cotton-pickin' minute here. What's really going on? Do you like this guy or not? Are you ...
friends6/8/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Dennis, i used to be realy good friends with this guy joel. him and i started being friends back in ...
  A: Easy, stop being his friend! As long as you remain his friend, you continue to give him hope that ...
shy guy6/8/2008Ana
  Q: what do you as a female think of a guy who is shy and has a real hard time starting a conversation.
  A: Hey Chris, Don't worry at all! Almost everyone is shy around the person they like! First of all, ...
advice6/7/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: hey dennis. this is not in the right category. but i know you are trained in dealing with many ...
  A: First of all, I really appreciate your situation. Having someone so close to you going through this ...
need some clarity6/7/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I called her up on this friday but she didnt pick up. Instead she texted me that she was travelling. ...
  A: Hey Jimmy! 1) I don't read minds, but she seemed interested from the beginning and is likely ...
lonely hot girls6/5/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I've noticed lately that many really pretty girls with nice personalities are single. And they stay ...
  A: Here's part of the problem: very few people are really experts at relationships and thus, they rely ...
current dating scene6/5/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Dennis, I've noticed lately that the current dating scene for men and women is very sad and bleak. ...
  A: Remember, this is a TV show. They build ratings based on controversy and thus, you can't use this as ...
lonely hot girls6/5/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I've noticed lately that many really pretty girls with nice personalities are single. And they stay ...
  A: This is a really excellent question. I've been looking forward to answering it. I just hope you ...
followup6/5/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Sure, I suppose that's a possibility too and if that is your experience it bears out your ...
  A: Oh, you again?? First of all, it depends on what you're looking for, what you consider "powerful" ...
This could be a real opportunity?6/5/2008Mark Rosmar
  Q: Theres a girl the same age as me that i like. We new each others personality a bit coz we both had ...
  A: Hell Anthony, Thanks for your note and kind words. I think you've covered alot of ground with this ...
This could be a real opportunity?6/5/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Theres a girl the same age as me that i like. We new each others personality a bit coz we both had ...
  A: You're damn right she got tired of waiting for you! Anthony, what in the hell were you thinking? ...
working girls...critique?6/2/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I have a couple questions but the most important one first: Just 10 minutes ago I asked a girl out ...
  A: I'm glad you're trying to expand your social sphere. That's exactly how you'll start getting the ...
plz help me6/2/2008Mark Rosmar
  Q: She works at a stand at the markets and when she is not bussy i go over and speek to her but i have ...
  A: At her market stand she is busy and, even keeping it simple, her reactions to your approaches can't ...
getting weirder by the minute6/1/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Well now the married guy is sending me tons of crazy text messages and following me around campus. ...
  A: Hey Julie! Not likely. If this guy is really interested, he's more likely to increase his efforts - ...
How to Attract the Woman of Your Dreams6/1/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: i know this girl from my childhood and i love her too,but could you tell me how to convince her to ...
  A: That's a far too huge, complicated question for me to possibly answer via these messages. If you ...
divorces5/31/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: why are there so many divorces nowadays i just dont get it? and what is the main cause? thanks :) ...
  A: Hey Katrina! Oh! Trust me, I NEVER forget about a woman's sex drive! "...it can be more powerful ...
getting weirder by the minute5/31/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Well now the married guy is sending me tons of crazy text messages and following me around campus. ...
  A: Strange as it may seem, no, it's not a warning flag by itself. It may turn you off, but in fact, the ...
divorces5/31/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: why are there so many divorces nowadays i just dont get it? and what is the main cause? thanks :) ...
  A: More reality: (I'm just full of reality today!) Marriage benefits women far more than it does men. ...
Lengthy Question5/30/2008Mark Rosmar
  Q: I'm not sure which category I should post this question in, so I will ask it in different areas. ...
  A: This girl should have no aversions to meeting up with you as you are already friends. Why not meet ...
getting weirder by the minute5/30/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Well now the married guy is sending me tons of crazy text messages and following me around campus. ...
  A: There are incredible men all over the place - just like there are incredible women all over the ...
divorces5/30/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: why are there so many divorces nowadays i just dont get it? and what is the main cause? thanks :)
  A: Actually, there aren't too many divorces. There are too many marriages. The reality is that people ...
You're a peice of shit5/28/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: dennis u suck you dont know jack about women and all u do on your website being a man is curse and ...
  A: Back for more again, eh? Well, who am I to deny you the abuse you so obviously crave? You see, I'm a ...
follow up5/28/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: --------------------------I seem to attract A LOT of married men with kids. In fact, that's ALL I ...
  A: You know why those beauties lose their guys to otherwise "less desirable" women? Simple: the ...
You're a peice of shit5/28/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: dennis u suck you dont know jack about women and all u do on your website being a man is curse and ...
  A: You're obviously not a mature or educated man so I'll keep this as simple as possible. Feel free to ...
HELP!!!5/28/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I have breasts and a penis. I would like to find a girlfriend that has breasts and a penis as well. ...
  A: To hell. Best regards... Dr. Dennis W. Neder President ~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~. ...
being held5/28/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Dennis its me well i found out that the older guy I was telling you about? he is married with 3 ...
  A: Yo! Jaci! I couldn't agree more. The first step is finding him, but the second, far larger step is ...
being held5/28/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Dennis its me well i found out that the older guy I was telling you about? he is married with 3 ...
  A: Hey Jaci! I don't know you well enough to say. I've never seen you or how you dress or how you act ...
being held5/28/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Dennis its me well i found out that the older guy I was telling you about? he is married with 3 ...
  A: Let me tell you what psychotic is: 1) Expecting me to remember all the things we talked about with ...
beautiful women don't stay single5/27/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I'm of the opinion that opportunities to date many of the most prized women in the dating scene have ...
  A: Unfortunately, it depends on the woman. You can't draw a "rule" from your level of attraction to ...
How to approach / meet people5/27/2008Ana
  Q: I'm newly single and have no problem talking to people that I get introduced to but I don't really ...
  A: Hey Paul!!! How are you. Hey, don't feel bad. All of us go through what you're going through. In ...
Older Man/Younger Woman Question5/27/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I was just reading your response to Sabrina's "Falling for a (somewhat) older man,” I like your ...
  A: First let me comment on the meeting with the ex-wife through a story: Many years ago I was dating ...
I cant think of a romantic date5/27/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: hey how you doin? me, not so good. this girl i like is leaving friday and i want to take her on a ...
  A: Hanging out at the lake; and maybe having a picnic can be a very romantic date; and frankly, is a ...
too fast but will it last?5/25/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: i happen to be the manager of a manager who has this girl (she is 21 and i m 28) in his team and i ...
  A: The very best way to do this is to not worry about her reaction because you're not going to "ask" ...
being held5/25/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Hey Dennis, Why is it that when a man puts his arms around a woman, it is the BEST feeling in the ...
  A: Hey Jaci! Aren't we the curios one this morning?? Since I don't know this guy, I can't say. If it ...
being held5/25/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Hey Dennis, Why is it that when a man puts his arms around a woman, it is the BEST feeling in the ...
  A: It sounds like a perfect match! I hope this works out for you. Best regards... Dr. Dennis W. Neder ...
being held5/24/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Hey Dennis, Why is it that when a man puts his arms around a woman, it is the BEST feeling in the ...
  A: First answer: Women crave what is powerful in men. Men by the way have different cravings from ...
too fast but will it last?5/24/2008Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: i happen to be the manager of a manager who has this girl (she is 21 and i m 28) in his team and i ...
  A: Well, you're right about this: it WILL die down if you just let it simmer like you are. You see, ...
i need help to keep it right and stronger5/24/2008Mark Rosmar
  Q: i happen to be the manager of a manager who has this girl (she is 21 and i m 28) in his team and i ...
  A: and thanks for your letter. The best way to deal with this - besides proposing marriage is to ...
i am confused5/24/2008Mark Rosmar
  Q: there is two ladies at work that i like they both smile at me when i see them they say hi they rub ...
  A: These women are just being friendly. You doubt me? Well invite one over to see your aquarium (or ...
help she dumped me.5/23/2008Ana
  Q: my name is Aneez i am 26 Male my girlfriend's name is Lucya & she is 27. this past weekend we had ...
  A: I know honey! I know! Remember I went through the SAME thing as you. It hurt sooooooooooo bad. I ...

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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, dating and sex, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers from all over the world. I'm able to answer literally any question regarding dating, finding and approaching women, sex, getting phone numbers, setting dates, what to do on dates, how to set them (and make sure she shows), dealing with dating problems, conversion from dates to relationships, etc. Check my website at: http://beingaman.com for much more. If your question is particularly sensitive you can email me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.

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Having helped over 30,000 people with their issues, I'm certainly qualified to help you with yours. I don't take the "feel good" approach at all. I'm direct and that comes from experience and research into what really works.

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