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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| My shyness is taking my life from me. | 9/23/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: i'll try to keep this description as clear as possible, but i really don't think i can explain it in ... A: Interesting, your English is better than many native speakers! There's a reason why you only meet ... | ||
| what to talk on my date | 9/22/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: i am 20 and i am from india. i know this girl from past one year. but its been not more than 5 ... A: If you don't speak much, it's because the people around you (including her) aren't engaging you! If ... | ||
| advice? | 9/19/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I have wrote you before but I have some new questions. I have just started college and have some ... A: That's one HUGE question! I could spend weeks trying to answer it! Art, there's no one or two or ... | ||
| How do I know if she likes me back? | 9/18/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I'm a senior in high school, I just got out of a kinda long relationship, b/c I no longer had ... A: You're wrong, Brad. She's NOT perfect. Don't idealize her and give her all this power over you that ... | ||
| I am 27 and would like to go on 1 date | 9/17/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: I am not very happy with life right now. I an not living the life I would like. I am not really ... A: and thanks for your question. By working hard on yourself, you seem to be doing many of the right ... | ||
| Need some advice | 9/17/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: So I've gotten to know my best friend pretty well this past year and 2 months now.The thing is i ... A: Hey James! You're right there (here) with all this "talent" around you and you're worried about ... | ||
| Need some advice | 9/17/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: So I've gotten to know my best friend pretty well this past year and 2 months now.The thing is i ... A: There's always "some hope", but the problem is that you will read that and assume that means there's ... | ||
| Need some advice | 9/17/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: So I've gotten to know my best friend pretty well this past year and 2 months now.The thing is i ... A: You should have taken it as a complete shutdown - that's exactly what it was. Let me translate some ... | ||
| How to to get her interest back ? | 9/12/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: "Hi, I would like to say i am a shy man, i had meet a girl in my work we had an eye contact for long ... A: Yes there is, but it's far, far more intricate than I can possibly go into via these messages. If ... | ||
| Are girls looking at me becasue i'm ugly ? | 9/10/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I am male teen 18 and i started college the other day. When i was walking into the entrance, this ... A: Look - I don't know if you're ugly or not. No, it's extremely unlikely that's the reason these girls ... | ||
| Are girls looking at me becasue i'm ugly ? | 9/10/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: I am male teen 18 and i started college the other day. When i was walking into the entrance, this ... A: I don't know why the girls are looking at you. All I can advise is the next time you see these ... | ||
| arousing my gf | 9/8/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: i hope you can answer this...if not who on this site could? "im trying to figure out a way to ... A: Are you conducting some kind of sociological experiment? If you bring her to a certain point, things ... | ||
| help | 9/7/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I am a 45 years old man living in Venezuela, married and with 2 kids. One week ago i travelled to ... A: I agree with your psychologist. When you give this sort of compliment to a woman you also give away ... | ||
| How to to get her interest back ? | 9/6/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: "Hi, I would like to say i am a shy man, i had meet a girl in my work we had an eye contact for long ... A: Attention Whore Alert!!!! This girl (unfortunately) isn't interested in you. She's interested in ... | ||
| How to initiate contact with my ex | 9/3/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago. She left me for obvious reason, in the beginning of the ... A: NO, that's not all you want. You want much, much more. What you're really saying is that you're ... | ||
| whats the deal | 9/1/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: hey dr.neder well theres this girl that i liked or loved for almost 1 or two years now. in late ... A: So, did you like or love her and for 1 or 2 years??? Unfortunately, you HAVE hit the friend-zone ... | ||
| the saga continues... | 8/26/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Dr. Neder, your answers have been so helpful to me in the past and your book is great. Looking ... A: BAM 2 is going to kick your ass - guaranteed! I'm a little concerned with the comments you made ... | ||
| love women | 8/26/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: i enjoy sex and i want to meet more women in living here in shreveport louisiana im 31 yrs old so ... A: Learn the game. Go to http://beingaman.com and http://beingaman.tv. You'll be getting more big ... | ||
| Next | 8/26/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I have not dated much and hardly any friendships with females. My last relationship I really was ... A: I'm actually glad you don't have many friendships with girls. Being a girl's friend when you really ... | ||
| I need some serious advice | 8/19/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: So i met this girl named Julia when i went on vacation and we stayed in the same house together and ... A: Curt, thanks for your letter and question. As I said in my last reply, you made the fatal error ... | ||
| Starting conversations with women | 8/19/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: . I'm quite shy but can usually start a conversation if there's something obvious to talk about, but ... A: The most interesting conversations with women are when you let them talk about themselves. Your ... | ||
| i like her. alot. and i dont know what to do from here.. | 8/16/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: i started school about two months back. and on the second day of school, i noticed this girl. i am a ... A: You need to lean back a little. Sometimes girls can play games with boys when the boys seem not to ... | ||
| ugly mean girls | 8/16/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I am married ant nice looking my husbands friends are so mean to me. he does not get it. i hate it ... A: Hmm...interesting story. Is that really what you wanted - just to tell someone how mean your ... | ||
| love | 8/14/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: i am 24 years old. a girl looks me. how i start my relation with her. how i attract her more A: First of all you have to let the girl know that you're alive as they may be many boys who feel the ... | ||
| advice on how to attract females in high school | 8/14/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: hey Doc, I would like to know if you have any advice to attract women while in high school if it ... A: Actually, yes I do! High school has it's own set of rules that don't directly translate to the rest ... | ||
| Chakra Balancing for Confidence | 8/13/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Just curious of your opinion on balancing the 7 chakras to improve confidence, presence, and overall ... A: The reason why learning "tactics" feels "off" is because you're trying to find techniques - not ... | ||
| I need some serious advice | 8/13/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: So i met this girl named Julia when i went on vacation and we stayed in the same house together and ... A: You made the fatal error when you told the girl how you felt about her. As a man the important thing ... | ||
| Why were the 2 girls looking at me ? | 8/12/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: I was working out today at the gym and after i had gotten changed , i went to the cafe bar to buy a ... A: The answer is, I don't know. But what I teach is that you should always be prepared for those ... | ||
| marriage and sex | 8/11/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: In all the long term marriages that you see, which have not ended in divorce, what was the secret? ... A: You're asking me to do something that nobody has EVER been able to do - define a single set of ... | ||
| ........... | 8/10/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: I got a problem.......... There is a girl who I met at a school dance in october, she started talkin ... A: and thanks for your letter. Well first up. If you leave your feelings or "happiness" to be at the ... | ||
| mixed single from a single mother I like | 8/10/2008 | Ana |
| Q: I met a woman 3 months ago through a dating agency and we hit it off very well. She kissed me first ... A: Feelings never go away. Years later, after you're married with kids, you will run into an ex and be ... | ||
| mixed single from a single mother I like | 8/9/2008 | Ana |
| Q: I met a woman 3 months ago through a dating agency and we hit it off very well. She kissed me first ... A: You need to act like a man of VALUE. This doesn't mean that you can be rude, spoiled, conceited, or ... | ||
| mixed single from a single mother I like | 8/9/2008 | Ana |
| Q: I met a woman 3 months ago through a dating agency and we hit it off very well. She kissed me first ... A: What you should have done is been confident and taken charge of this situation from the get-go. But ... | ||
| how | 8/7/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: How can I invite a girl I like that has an overly proctive dad over to my house. A: What are you inviting her over to your house for? If it's a game of Scrabble, then you have no ... | ||
| getting back my girl | 8/7/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Me and my girl had been together one month short of two years and I love her with all my heart. She ... A: Hey Chris! To quote Yoda, "No try. Do!" She told you there was still a chance in order to ease HER ... | ||
| getting back my girl | 8/7/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Me and my girl had been together one month short of two years and I love her with all my heart. She ... A: Yes, I KNOW you want her back. Unfortunately, wanting something so much it hurts won't make it come ... | ||
| How can i speak to girls if i have low self steem ? | 8/5/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I'm 18 male teen and i am have sooo low self esteem that it's killing my chances of meeting girls. ... A: First of all, you're right - you WILL be like this forever if you don't get it handled. The good ... | ||
| How can i speak to girls if i have low self steem ? | 8/5/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: I'm 18 male teen and i am have sooo low self esteem that it's killing my chances of meeting girls. ... A: Instead of bothering about getting the girls interested in you; you need to become interested in ... | ||
| How can i speak to girls if i have low self steem ? | 8/5/2008 | Ana |
| Q: I'm 18 male teen and i am have sooo low self esteem that it's killing my chances of meeting girls. ... A: Well you're good looking and tall and you sound like you are a nice guy. So you're already every ... | ||
| i dont fuckin understand whats happenin here | 8/4/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: since reading the info on your site and just testing the field and learning a bit here and there ive ... A: Why wasn't the sex your idea? It's your job to move things forward and if you wanted to have sex, ... | ||
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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, dating and sex, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers from all over the world. I'm able to answer literally any question regarding dating, finding and approaching women, sex, getting phone numbers, setting dates, what to do on dates, how to set them (and make sure she shows), dealing with dating problems, conversion from dates to relationships, etc. Check my website at: http://beingaman.com for much more. If your question is particularly sensitive you can email me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.
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