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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| Attracted to girl with a boyfirend | 11/12/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: A few days ago I went out with my sister and her friends to a lounge.When we got there I greeted ... A: No, it's not "how could you forget" it's "how could you be concerned - even in the least"??? Joel, ... | ||
| Love solution | 11/11/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Well i am in love with a girl of different community.due to some reasons i have made a bad ... A: If she's not talking to you any more, you're not even friends at this point. I think the thing to ... | ||
| How could I propose? | 11/11/2008 | Alex Strandberg |
| Q: I am Saurabh. I fell in love with a girl whose name is Saloni since 5 years.It was the time when I ... A: Hey Saurabh, It's difficult to answer this question because I'm not too familiar with your culture ... | ||
| I NEED HELP | 11/11/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Dennis, I am an Egyptian teenager, 17 years in the American University in Cairo. I am overweight but ... A: Here's what you do: you stop putting all this pressure on yourself and just enjoy what you're doing ... | ||
| She has a boyfriend | 11/10/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Neder, I've read some of your advice and it's been really helpful. I'm in University and there's ... A: Absolutely. If she and her boyfriend don't see each other often, I'm assuming this is a ... | ||
| Am I getting played? Or am I playing myself? | 11/10/2008 | Alex Strandberg |
| Q: I met 2 girls from Italy 3 years ago-they are best friends-(I was her their tour guide; we exchanged ... A: Hey Dartanian, Yes, it is a waste of your time but in more ways than one. 1. She does like the ... | ||
| How to make her feel the same | 11/10/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I am a seventeen year old and and have strong feelings for a girl my age we have been speaking to ... A: You haven't given me much to go on. Has she TOLD you she's not interested or has she simply been ... | ||
| I like this chick | 11/9/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Hey Doc. i have a problem or something like that ima junior in my H.S. and you see i like well i ... A: So, here you are making all sorts of excuses for why she wouldn't want to get to know you. On the ... | ||
| how do i regain the interest of an ex-girlfriend | 11/8/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I have liked this girl for about 3 years and i have gotten to know her pretty well, she attractive, ... A: What do you mean "will slip". You HAVE slipped into the friend-zone. You've already dated this girl ... | ||
| The Lady | 11/8/2008 | Alex Strandberg |
| Q: very smart, class president and recently won first place in a cross country race and is going to ... A: Hey, She may or may not like you but her being attracted to you isn't the issue. The real issue is ... | ||
| shyness! | 11/7/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Im 33 years old and only had a few relationships in my life. Any women I did date, i really was ... A: I couldn't be more pleased to hear that you're fed up with the life you've chosen. ("What did that ... | ||
| Getting an Older Girl. | 11/6/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: My Name is Kirill.. And I've recently met a girl that I feel so much towards.. when I'm with her the ... A: I agree about your age difference. When you get older, this will make no difference at all, but at ... | ||
| No confidence | 11/6/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I am male 24. Although i wont consider myself shy but i do not have confidence to speak with women. ... A: First of all, great job for not letting your lack of confidence keep you from having what you ... | ||
| How Can I Tell? | 11/6/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Neder, Like others, I would like to thank you in advance for taking the time you will to answer my ... A: I'm afraid she's trying to let you down without actually coming out and saying it. Here's the ... | ||
| Re: I like her but i need to find out if shes single? | 11/5/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Ive found myslef besotted with a girl at my uni. We only talk briefly when we see each other in the ... A: Why in the hell are you worried if she's "with someone"? That's not your problem! What if you're a ... | ||
| The Lady | 11/5/2008 | Alex Strandberg |
| Q: She is very pretty, very smart, class president and recently won first place in a cross country race ... A: Hey the man, Listen to the words you use "want badly a girl". Badly wanting something is the same ... | ||
| Hook Line and Sinker | 11/4/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: She is very pretty, very smart, class president and recently won first place in a cross country race ... A: How what? How do you ask her out? Just walk up to her and say, "You know, we should get to know ... | ||
| What do i say to a girl when i get her number ? | 11/3/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I am a male teen who's naturally very shy. But today i got a girl's number for the first time. ... A: GREAT FREAKIN' JOB, DANY!! I'm very proud of you! You didn't let your own shyness prevent you from ... | ||
| Hook Line and Sinker | 11/3/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: She is very pretty, very smart, class president and recently won first place in a cross country race ... A: Yes, she likes you. What in the hell are you waiting for? Go get your confidence and ask this girl ... | ||
| I Love her and don't want to let her go this time. | 10/31/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I have a similar story as Tony. You see there is this girl I really liked in High School and never ... A: Let's be clear about the realities here: you liked this girl in high school and the friendship ... | ||
| Friends Forever | 10/29/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I heard somewhere that you should not be jus friends otherwise there is less chances of that girl ... A: What you heard is correct. To learn more about why this is true, go to my website ... | ||
| Am I being led on? | 10/26/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: My supposed "Best Friend" and I have been teasing, flirting, helping, etc.. each other for 4 years ... A: This woman is a total and complete Attention Whore ("AW"). These signals are loud-and-clear. She ... | ||
| LOVE BACK | 10/25/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I FELL FOR A CO-WORKER,OLDER,WITH CHILDREN.I SHOWED HER LADIES INTERESTED IN ME,LET HER HEAR ... A: Hey Tony! There's always a chance, but that doesn't necessarily make it a reasonable chance. Your ... | ||
| LOVE BACK | 10/24/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I FELL FOR A CO-WORKER,OLDER,WITH CHILDREN.I SHOWED HER LADIES INTERESTED IN ME,LET HER HEAR ... A: The dumb things: She flirted with someone else and you got jealous. You pulled back when you should ... | ||
| is she interested | 10/24/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: ok. this is going to sound wierd, but i have recently been talking to this girl who is younger than ... A: I don't know this girl and I don't read minds. From her saying "hi" to you there's no way for me to ... | ||
| How to be in control of the relationship | 10/20/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Neder, I've been reading some of the questions lately and i've found your advice very credible and ... A: Wait a minute. You call her, you set the dates and you think you're not "in control"? It sounds ... | ||
| How to Stand Out (Positiviely) to Women | 10/19/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Hey there Dr. Neder! I have a question for you that seems simple enough, but requires a complex ... A: Frankly, physical appearance doesn't do very much for you. Certainly not as much as most men ... | ||
| Would this make a girl's day & | 10/16/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I see this girl in my gym every now and then, who i think is stunning. If i was to randomly go up to ... A: First of all, there's nothing rare about this at all. Every honey teenager in town has tried that ... | ||
| What girls want | 10/16/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: What do girls look for in a guy. How do I get them to notice me? P.S. I'm the shy type A: To answer your question, let me tell you a story: Socrates was a very learned, knowledgeable, wise ... | ||
| A dilema | 10/14/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I would like to thank you in advance for answering my question to the best of your abilities as I am ... A: Alright then. So ask her out, let her say "no" and move on. Frankly, I'm still not convinced by ... | ||
| A dilema | 10/14/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I would like to thank you in advance for answering my question to the best of your abilities as I am ... A: I'm always deeply concerned with any guy goes for "...even the slightest chance..." because your ... | ||
| How to attract a girl that already has a serious boyfriend | 10/13/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: My name is Paul. I have known this girl for a few weeks now and she really is a beautiful girl and ... A: I never said you did hang out everyday - all it takes is once. That's what friends do. Best ... | ||
| How to attract a girl that already has a serious boyfriend | 10/13/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: My name is Paul. I have known this girl for a few weeks now and she really is a beautiful girl and ... A: Let's be clear on this: you ARE building a friendship - and absolutely ruining any chance you may ... | ||
| i screwed up with the girl of my dreams | 10/8/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: as you will probably say i am young, naive and there are plenty other girls in the sea, being of the ... A: You may be young, but you're 100% of your age! You have a number of lessons to learn from this ... | ||
| Age Gap, during teenage years... | 10/6/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: My name is Kirill and Im currently 12 years old.. My sister has a friend who is 14 years old, ... A: As you get older, age differences begin to mean less and less, but I'm in the reality business and ... | ||
| girl not calling back. | 10/1/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I am a girl and went out on a date with another girl. We had a great time and she said to call her ... A: It's entirely possible she did - and does - like you. This is actually pretty common with women. She ... | ||
| talking to girls; flirting, holding a convo, etc. | 10/1/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Dr. Neder. My problem is that I don't have a good way to open a conversation with girls. Or, if I ... A: First of all, yes, you need to get some game. The good news is that this isn't tough to do. It takes ... | ||
| how to solve my problem | 9/29/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: i saw this cute girl in my class but i didnt approach her during the first 2 months.i finally talked ... A: Well you asked her out and she says that she likes you as a brother. I don't suggest that you ... | ||
| Love | 9/25/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
| Q: I am an Indian, teenager, read in class 9. Recently I had been fallen into love of a girl two years ... A: put your romantic interest for her on hold and only engage in casual convo with the possibility of ... | ||
| girl | 9/23/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Hey Dr. Dennis. I am 17 years old and have a thing with this girl who is 18..she is a senior and i ... A: Yes, I'm going to help you. First of all, STOP HANGING OUT!!! That's a coward's way out. You don't ... | ||
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