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Does this girl like me back?12/16/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I recently met this girl in college a month ago and i think i have a crush on her. I want to know if ...
  A: Yes, she likes you. Now, start treating her like a girlfriend and guess what? You'll be starting the ...
dating12/15/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: you see theres a girl called strawberry and weve been friends for over a year and a half. I moved a ...
  A: She's called "strawberry"? Sounds like a real fruit. I kid, I kid! ;) If you've moved away too ...
In love with my best friend's sister11/30/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: This topic is fairly common so I apologize for throwing it at you but I could use some guidance. I ...
  A: So, let me get this straight. * Your best friend doesn't want someone he knows and trusts to date ...
A question on a man's qualities11/29/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Neder In your book "Being a man in a woman's world I", you write that one of the important points ...
  A: No, that's not what I mean. Your perspective is about control. Mine is about leadership. Let's look ...
wanted help11/25/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Namasthe,sir iam from INDIA my problem is i fall in luv with a lady doctor last year she sometimes ...
  A: You've told me almost nothing I need to know in order to help you. You aren't in love with her - you ...
Help!11/21/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Well see i met this girl at a coon hunt back in January. And well i was like lightin struck and well ...
  A: She's 20 years old and her dad won't let her date? What in the hell is going on here? Is she going ...
breakup question11/16/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: me and my girlfriend have been dating for 8 months and the last few months our relationship has ...
  A: So, let me get this straight: SHE decided that you two were going to stop having sex, stop being ...
The great pathway11/9/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Neder My relationships with women have not been successful. They usually followed a certain pattern: ...
  A: You have no idea how often I hear this exact same story. It's sad, not just from the effects it has ...
What should I do?11/7/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I'm a high schooler, and this is definitely when relationships start to heat up. I really like this ...
  A: DO NOT tell her you like her!! Marcus, I fully understand why you want to do this, but trust me, ...
Etiquette11/3/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Can you offer some suggestions of what to do when for no rhyme or reason someone in your family or ...
  A: It depends on whether it's a one- or two-time event or if it's habitual. If it only happens once or ...
facebook10/25/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: .thanks in advance for your help. I saw this really cute girl on facebook and sent her a friend ...
  A: First, let me tell you what NOT to do: Don't: * contact her expecting her to fall in love with you ...
How to get the girl I really like10/21/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: My name is Alex, I live in Mexico and I'm falling for this girl I met her in my job and quickly ...
  A: Of course she's afraid of you. Instead of actually moving things somewhere, you tried to pull the ...
Get my Ex Girlfriendf Back10/21/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: My ex girlfriend am I were going out for one year last six month we ware. I intimate .She often ...
  A: Hey Sean! Of course she's in your mind 24/7. You're addicted. You need to break these unhealthy ...
how to purpose??10/13/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: i love a girl. she is 3 years older than me. Now we just talk sometime only. She is not very good ...
  A: Ah yes. The #1 most common question I get from men from India. The old, "I'm in love with her and ...
bad date10/3/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: i sold something online. this woman buys it, shows up at my doorstep, drop dead gorgeous. we stayed ...
  A: Here's what happened (and what should have been your first question): You tried to hold your dates ...
Passing by pick up9/28/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I just had a pretty general question. How do I go about asking for someones number who is basically ...
  A: In fact, this is actually incredibly easy. You can even get digits from someone you pass on the ...
Girlfriend before deployment ?9/25/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I am expecting to deploy in 10 months. I am looking for advice on how to utilize my time between now ...
  A: First of all, thank you for your service to our country! I guess the real question isn't about ...
Get my Ex Girlfriendf Back9/24/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: My ex girlfriend am I were going out for one year last six month we ware. I intimate .She often ...
  A: No, she won't change. This is a pattern for her life. All this is going to do is to cause you to ...
Get my Ex Girlfriendf Back9/22/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: My ex girlfriend am I were going out for one year last six month we ware. I intimate .She often ...
  A: Do you really want this girl back? Seriously? You must love pain because that's all this girl will ...
in love with my best friend9/17/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: well ive read over alot of your answers to people and 2 b honest im not expecting to hear any good ...
  A: No situation is absolutely "hopeless", but this one is pretty close. Normally, I'd just tell you to ...
How to get close to girl I'm attracted to9/10/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Dennis W.Neder, Firstly I just want to thank you for an answer you gave me before. It took me quite ...
  A: So, instead of doing what you should have done (what I told you to do) you tried to hold your first ...
Why doesn't my girlfriend say 'i love you' on the phone?9/8/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Everyday, my girlfriend and I speak on the phone for about 30mins because we go to different ...
  A: First of all, what are you doing in an LDR??? Are you really telling me that there are no girls at ...
Tough Question9/4/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: What if a guy has a female best friend, should his partner be ok with it?
  A: As with most things, it depends. Your partner (lover) has the right to not have their relationship ...
How to get close to girl I'm attracted to9/2/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Dennis W.Neder, Firstly I just want to thank you for an answer you gave me before. It took me quite ...
  A: Obviously, I don't know answer I gave you before, but I'm often left having to deliver bad news. ...
Damped8/30/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: How can u bring back the love on a girl whom just damped you for a few months,and how can u make her ...
  A: "...more than expected..."? By whom?? I don't know the circumstances of any of this. You're ...
Plague of shyness8/28/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Nader, Since I am 59, there's too many details to go into. But although i have no overt reason ...
  A: First off, I'm not at all surprised to hear that your therapist isn't helping you break through any ...
In a tight spot8/21/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Recently, I have gotten into the habit of asking women out everywhere I go. For instance, a few ...
  A: Here's a learning question for you: what does a girl really mean when she says "no"? Answer: it's a ...
In a tight spot8/20/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Recently, I have gotten into the habit of asking women out everywhere I go. For instance, a few ...
  A: That's actually a great habit to be in! I only wish you'd learn how to do it right rather than ...
Help for my friend8/10/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Now I am asking this question for a friend of mine. I have gotten help from you in the past that ...
  A: I'm sorry - I don't do "pass-through's". If your friend needs help, he needs to come here (or go to ...
getting the digits8/10/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: There is this girl at my college who always catches my attention. I have spoken with her briefly a ...
  A: "Appropriate"?? Seriously Cody? What's appropriate for you then? Some engraved invitation? Stop ...
Hair Looks Conflict8/6/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Dennis ! I have prolonged my exceeding shoulder length.But now Some of my Friends are saying " It ...
  A: Here's the problem you have: which women? Some women like long hair and some don't. It's neither a ...
Whats your Opinion?8/2/2011ToughBuff
  Q: She's showing interest but not fully? (or she could be friendly) She texted back smiley faces ...
  A: Give her some space. Smiley faces are polite not an invitation. Ask her out for a date that is more ...
Dateing7/23/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I really like this girl but I'm in the friend zone. I have been in the friend zone for 3 years. I ...
  A: It sounds like you've gone from interest to obsession. That's a lot of your own power to give away ...
Your book and my reality confusion7/18/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I have read many of your articles, as well as your BAM. I like them. I have also read some other ...
  A: First of all, I see a problem with your questions. You aren't going to be able to match up the ...
Is she playing games?7/16/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I have this friend that I have been quite taken with for a long time. We've known eachother for ...
  A: Yes, absolutely she knows you still have feelings for her. It's those very feelings that she's using ...
What can help to cope when letting go of beloved7/13/2011ToughBuff
  Q: I have loved this girl so much that just seeing her makes me nervous! She was once my girlfriend, ...
  A: In a purely scientific way you can look at the progression of your situation through the five stages ...
new girl7/6/2011Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I just went on a trip to tahoe for the 4th of july weekend. I met a group of girls (three of them) ...
  A: The answer depends on how tight you are with the group. In other words, if your association with ...
new girl7/6/2011ToughBuff
  Q: I just went on a trip to tahoe for the 4th of july weekend. I met a group of girls (three of them) ...
  A: Don't over-complicate things. You like one of them. Just send her a polite message saying that ...
How can i win her love?6/30/2011ToughBuff
  Q: I have loved this girl so much that just seeing her makes me nervous! She was once my girlfriend, ...
  A: Is she seeing someone else? You can approach her one more time and tell her how you feel. However, ...
Pick up a good looking girl from facebook6/17/2011ToughBuff
  Q: I'm 16, 6', short dirty blonde hair, good body, in advanced classes, with mild acne and straight ...
  A: I don't think you are doing anything wrong. But you seem like a late bloomer in the sense that while ...

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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, dating and sex, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers from all over the world. I'm able to answer literally any question regarding dating, finding and approaching women, sex, getting phone numbers, setting dates, what to do on dates, how to set them (and make sure she shows), dealing with dating problems, conversion from dates to relationships, etc. Check my website at: http://beingaman.com for much more. If your question is particularly sensitive you can email me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.

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Having helped over 30,000 people with their issues, I'm certainly qualified to help you with yours. I don't take the "feel good" approach at all. I'm direct and that comes from experience and research into what really works.

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