Expert: PracticalHappiness.com - 1/6/2007

Question
Hello sir,
         I Aman sharma pursuing my MBA. I have crush on a girl but later i came to know that she is committed. earlier we chat on phone frequently then one day she ask me that do i have a girl friend i said NO. when i asked she replied that she is committed and now I send her merry Christmas, New year and b'day msg, but she didn't respond.i have seen the photos of her boy friend and found that i am many times better than that guy. please suggest what i should do.

Answer
Hey, Aman. Thanks for your question. I suggest that you don't pursue this girl any further. She is comitted and that says it all! Interfering with that relationship will likely be pointless or even bring trouble to her and you.  

The fact that you are more attractive than him is irrelevant. The girl must see something in him that she really likes. She cares for him for reasons other than his looks, and this should be respected.

You are much better off leaving this alone and focusing on pursuing other girls who are available and are interested in you.  And if you are an attractive, educated fella, this should not be an issue.

Thanks, and I hope this helps.

Arkady Itkin
www.PracticalHappiness.com