Expert: Mark Rosmar - 12/13/2007

Question
I've always been attracted to this friend from the first moment i met her. She is everything that I look for in the opposite sex and more. She makes me want to be a better person and supports me no matter what happens. She is always there for me whether I need her or not; that's why she's my best friend and I will do the same for her. The thing is that she has never dated anyone before. She has had crushes on guys but they always turned out to be jerks. She is a good, honest christian girl that lives by the book 100%. When it comes to guys telling her that she likes them, her normal reaction is to freak out and go into a mode of avoiding them and call me to ask how she should let them down. My problem is that I don't know how she might react to me telling her about my feelings for her. I don't want her to shut me out of her life because she is extremely important to me. What should I tell her or do?

Answer
Hello Mario,  

Thanks for your note.

No need to declare any "feelings." You just need to flirt with her.


Either that or soon you'll be counseling her about her emotional problems with one of the same old jerks.

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Mark