Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 9/2/2007

Question
theres a really nice girl that really love but the thing is, is that my best mate also fancies her and the girl does not seem to believe that i love her. please tell me what i should

Answer
Hello Jacob!

You should give me more information!

First of all, either you or your buddy need to back down. Only one of you can go for her if you want to remain friends. Whomever expressed their interest first is the one thta should move things forward and the other needs to stand down. That's what mates do. As we say here in the states, "Bros before Ho's".

What's all this stuff about her not believing you? More important, what's this about you "loving her". You don't even know her to love her and by thinking that you do you're giving all your power away.

It seems that she's trying to get you to jump and dance and sing with this "belief" crap, but then, you set yourself up for this by telling her how you felt in the first place.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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