Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 4/3/2007

Question
I work with a lady that is 41 I’m 31 she flirts with me a lot. Recently we started working out together and finally I got her to go with me to have a few drinks. At the end of the night I walk her to the car and noting she gets in and tells me goodbye like she is not interested. This has been going on for a while she leads me on and when I make a move at her its like noting happens. Should I just tell her to piss off?

Answer
Hello Dan!

First of all, it sounds like you haven't even kissed her yet. What may very well be happening is that she either loves the attention from a younger buck like yourself or she's waiting for you to make a move and you're just not getting the job done.

Here's what I suggest:

The next time you go out with her for drinks, instead of waiting for the end of the night to see what happens, use my (patent pending) "opening kiss" technique.

That is, walk right up to her and without even saying a word, take her, pull her towards you (and slightly off balance) and kiss her! Make it not sloppy, and let it linger just a little too long.

Now, if that doesn't get things going then you'll know to move on. More important, let HER buy the drinks that night!

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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