Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 11/25/2007

Question
QUESTION: i want to propose a girl but the problem is that she is working with me and i'am not able to tell her my feelings

ANSWER: Hello Sam!

Let's be clear on two points first:

1) What part of the world do you live in?

2) What is it that you want to propose?

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
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Remington Publications
818.334.8826
http://beingaman.com
Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"


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QUESTION: HI Mr Neder this is sam and i live in india and the gril i was talking about i want to tell that i love her but i'am not able to express my feeling to her

Answer
Hello again Sam!

You shouldn't express your feelings to her anyway. That's a coward's way out. It's all about doing the things you see in movies and thinking that's reality. It's not.

You don't propose love and expect the girl to just do all your work for her. She'll just see you as a weak, clueless guy that she now has to avoid - at work!

Instead, invite her to have coffee with you outside of work just to find out who she is. This is casual and no-pressure. Whatever you do, DO NOT propose love to her.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.
Remington Publications
818.334.8826
http://beingaman.com
Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"