How to Attract the Woman of Your Dreams/last question

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one last question...
what is more effective in making a girl like me
laughter or romance?
specify both please...

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Hello Jimbo!

Specify both??? Ok: laughter and romance.

I have no clue what you're asking me here, but what bothers me about this question is that you're even concerned with trying to get a girl to like you. That is entirely the wrong way to go.

You can create attraction in any woman at any time, and making her laugh is ONE key of many. Intially, being romantic will work against you - it'll make you look creepy.

Get this through your head right now: don't use attraction as a way to get women to do your work for you. You can't create enough attraction to entirely change all the rules of the game. It's YOUR job to approach women, close them and set-up dates. It's NOT her job - and she knows it.

Don't think you can make her all nuts for you and that she'll then take all the risk for you - it won't work.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, dating and sex, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers from all over the world. I'm able to answer literally any question regarding dating, finding and approaching women, sex, getting phone numbers, setting dates, what to do on dates, how to set them (and make sure she shows), dealing with dating problems, conversion from dates to relationships, etc. Check my website at: http://beingaman.com for much more. If your question is particularly sensitive you can email me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.

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Having helped over 30,000 people with their issues, I'm certainly qualified to help you with yours. I don't take the "feel good" approach at all. I'm direct and that comes from experience and research into what really works.

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