Expert: PracticalHappiness.com - 2/23/2007

Question
Hi I have what I consider a problem. I'm to shy to ever approach a women eventhough I really want to. The only time I can get up the nerve is to have a couple beers first and I feel like wont work either. I get very nervous almost twitchy ands sweaty and it kills my confidence I now have not approached a girl in at least a few months. What can I do to help with approaching women and actually hold a conversation.  

Answer
Hey, Adam. Thanks for your question. I believe you made the first and the most important step toward solving your issue - your recognize that you have one.    

Many people will suggest different quick tips and tricks to you, such as pick-up lines, new clothing, even new cologne, etc... ;).  The reality is, however, that real issues require real solutions.  

Becoming good at meeting women is a skill. Like any other skill (learning a language, learning how to play an instrument, etc) it takes time, work and practice.  

I have dedicated years to learning this issue and I believe I have a lot of very effective and practical information to share. Please go to my site www.PracticalHappiness.com
Start with reading my blogs and free audio tips on dating and relationships in the "Free Advice Section." Then, check out "Powerful Pick-Up" to learn more about my best selling audio program that is dedicated to approaching women.

And remember, your nervousness is a result of lack of experience - it's a stage fright. It never goes away completely - that's just part of our nature, but my program will help you conquer it and even enjoy it.

Please follow up if you have any comments or questions through her or through my site.

Thanks.

Arkady Itkin
www.Practicalhappiness.com