Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 9/10/2006

Question
hi..
well im a freshman in highschool and ive liked this girl at my church 4 about a year she goes 2 my school and i have PE wit her
i hangout with her alot but not outside of church or school. im pretty sure she has no idea that i like her. recently another kid liked her and im 'ok' friends with this kid. and the girl i like didnt wanna go out with him so she asked me to try talkin him out of it. im still in the middle of this problem but i cant help it anymore i really like this girl
ima kind of heavy guy ive never had a girlfriend but im friends with alot of girls
thx--Z

Answer
Hello "Z"!

First of all, you absolutely need to go read my FAQ's here: http://beingaman.com and then click on "Self Help" and "FAQ's".

You may have shot yourself in the foot with this girl - and all your other "friends". When you become a woman's "friend" you'll never be anything else to her! Learning this lesson now is going to save you a ton of anguish later on in life.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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