Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 8/30/2006

Question
sir, a great looking girl is now in my neighbourhood, what a stupid thing was that i went to her direct, she was stunned looking at me. lateron, i did more stupid acts like - putting my love letters in her bicycle at the bicycle stands. i did it for a couple of stands, now she parks her bicycle which is out of reach from me. how can i get her? i am mad. please help.
regards,
bhas.

Answer
Hello Bhas!

Let's see, if I understand what you've said here, you met this girl, stalked, tortured and terrified her until she had to hide from you and now you want my help to "get her"?

Let me ask you a question: how do either she or I know you're not dangerous? It's apparent that she thinks you are, and I'm inclined to believe her!

I suggest that you back way off. If you ever get the chance to speak to her again, (which itself is unlikely) I suggest you start with an appology. Explain to her that in your over-zealousness to meet her you probably scared her, and that was not your intention.

Then, ask her how you can make it up to her and prove to her (and me?) that you're not dangerous, but that you're a good, caring, worthwhile guy that is still learning this game just like so many others.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.
Remington Publications
818.334.8826
www.beingaman.com
Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"