Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 8/23/2007

Question
hey dennis, its rob you already know about my situation with lisa that shes using excuses not to be with me and shes throwing thre i dont want a boyfriend lets just be friends excuses out there.we both know i want her as my girlfriend i watched your video on from girl friend to girlfriend great information really helped alot and i look forward to seeing what happens but what if she asks me why i havent been texting her and calling her and why i havent been talking to her its been about 4 days since we talked we usually talk everyday but sooner or later she'll ask why i havent been there..what should i say?? Thanks a bunch,..Rob

Answer
Hello again Rob!

No, I'm afraid I don't remember your situation. Sorry, but you should always copy the original messages when you contact me as I get between 30-50 of them EVERY DAY! I can't possibly keep all of these questions separated in my head.

If I didn't mention it, you also need to read my FAQ's at the website. (http://beingaman.com and click on "Self Help". From there, select FAQ's.) You'll find 3 articles on how to turn a friend into more. Go read those right now so that you know what you're up against.

If she asks you why you're scarce just say, "Oh, I've been meeting new people and have been busy." Then, change the subject by asking her how she's been. Cut this short however. Only spend about 2-3 minutes on the phone if you can and then say, "Well, I have to get going. Talk to you later..."

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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