Expert: Mark Rosmar - 11/19/2007

Question
im 17 years old and i have a 3' willy on soft and last time i had sex with a girl i lasted no longer than 30 seconds lol but she was teasing me all day and stuff so i was bursting but i know a girl who lives accross the road from me and i have known her for about 7 months i love her to bits and for the past 2 weeks she has been holding my hand and holding me when sat next to her but i cant make the first move because i think she would run a mile if she saw the size of my willy plus i cant last a long time having sex i just cant hold it in please help me by sending me an email at: mcpulze@yahoo.co.uk please help me.

Steven.

Answer
Steven,

Thanks for your question in relation to penis size and the act of love-making; allow me to provide some insight.

Visually, size, or the illusion of size, does matter to a woman. But when it comes to action time it more about your technique.

Many men also find the length of the organ to be a positive confidence booster. By the same token some think that a shorter organ somehow diminishes their performances. At any rate though Stephen, a woman shouldn't be seeing your penis before it enters her though.

However many women are more concerned about a man's girth, that is, the actual circumference of the penis moreso than the length. Many men on the planet don't know this.

Ultimately though the total act of intercourse should not ever be dependent on the penis size, but the whole arsenal of techniques.

Hope this helps

Mark